Stop watching porn/masturbating

I have been in this situation except we didn’t live together. You have to break up with her and it’s not going to be easy. You are not responsible for her life or her personal struggles. I do understand that you care, but you can’t stay together because she has a hard life and if you stay together it’s going to really deteriorate and end badly. I promise you, the longer you stay the more unpleasant the ending will be.

I’m glad you can see where you have gone wrong. That’s a good starting point. I’m also glad I could help even a small amount.

In getting help, go to therapy. Figure out why you think the way you do. Figure out why things rile you up. Once you have figured out the why you will be able to work on staying calm and not over thinking things.

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Decide that you don't want a marriage like that, and make it clear to him that if that's what he wants, you will make other plans.

It does not matter. You've I formed them that of his threats. What they decide to do from there is up to them, but it's no longer your responsibility, and you can get out. Get yourself out, then inform them, then cut off complete contact.

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He was mad at me last night because I asked him to stop banging his leg on the bed because it was waking me up. Then he proceeded to sleep in the couch. I went after him and said that he he was behaving like a child and it was unnecessary, that he should come back to bed, but he didn't. And woke up like this.

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If you're still together next year maybe don't be so vociferous about not wanting anything. Apparently you rebuffed her offers to get you something (twice) and she took you at your word. She probably didn't even hear you ask for a card. There are enough people out there who hate birthdays that she likely just assumed you didn't want to be reminded of yet another trip around the sun.

I feel like I should never be jealous because I completely trust my BF and if I do feel jealous it’s because I don’t trust him. But realistically jealously is a human emotion I have to learn to deal with and manage.

I wouldn't send this.

>If you want to work things out then we can talk and address both of our issues together. Anytime you are ready. I know the past few months have been rough and emotionally exhausting

Y'all have obviously had a rough few months leading up to this break-up. YOU broke up with HER fairly recently by the sounds of it. This 4 paragraphs of "I love you" and "Let's fight for this" honestly just sounds like love-bombing, drama, and more emotional exhaustion. One day you want her, the next day you don't.

Let it go, and work on moving on.

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I personally would tell his GF and not talk to him. He's trying to justify his actions, and his best friend is a h*. There is only one person who is going to get hurt, and that's his girlfriend. NEITHER ONE OF THEM CARE about what they are doing. Do the right thing and tell his girlfriend. Or take her out for a girls night and let her catch him with his bimbo.

I thought he wouldn’t leave the house to get help? Only you know if you can get past his actions.

>She didn’t get me anything*, which is ok cause i told her that i didn’t want anything*

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>Last week, she said that she wanted to take me shopping for my bday weekend but i said that it’s ok and i didn’t need anything*. I told her that i would rather just have her write a card and i didn’t need anything.*

Telling someone that you don't need anything. And then telling them "I would rather" leave your communication up to misinterpretation. You never actually said I want you to do x.

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You’ve been casual so he’d probably just tell you not to bother if he didn’t want to see you anymore. Focus on the other guys you’re talking to on dating apps, as you’re casual with the Septembre guy anyway.

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It’s kind of like, would be friends with someone you knew was racist?

It doesn’t make you racist, but racism isn’t a deal breaker for you /: