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Reply to (22F) caught my bf (30M) texting another girl. by [deleted]

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nightowl2023 t1_j6oyeo5 wrote

Reply to My (f23) Fiancée (m26) wants to experiment with men. by [deleted]

My fiancé wants to cheat on me.

That's what this post needs to say.

Driving a new way home to see if it's faster is an experiment. You are testing to see if a desired outcome is true or not.

What outcome does sleeping with a guy present him with if he is bisexual? Is he trying to confirm whether or not he likes women? Or his he just trying to "live life" before he gets married?

Personally, I would call this marriage off.

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Username_1379 t1_j6oxj1k wrote

Reply to comment by ebruley in What do I (19m) do about my girlfriend (18f) by ebruley

Hmmm. Fair enough. It sounds like she’s a bit hung up on herself rather than understanding that school work should be the top priority here.

Just because you’re studying doesn’t mean that you don’t care about her.

I suppose I would sit down with yourself to really think about if you can accept how she treats you. I’m not sure if there’s a magical way you can explain it to make her better understand your perspective. You’ll have to decide what your limits/boundaries are for how you’re treated in a romantic relationship.

I wish I had a better answer for you!

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Reply to My (f23) Fiancée (m26) wants to experiment with men. by [deleted]

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trishsf t1_j6oxavd wrote

Reply to My husband(M26) keeps threatening suicide so I(F33) could finally be happy by [deleted]

He’s abusive. You are raising your children to either be abusive or to end up in an abusive relationship. He’s verbally abusive. He’s physically abusive. He’s emotionally abusive. You don’t make him any of that. He’s a monster. Call a local domestic violence hotline and ask for help. They will guide you through leaving safely. If you won’t do it for yourself, do it for your children. The kids he hates. That’s not your fault either. He’s a monster. You aren’t even a little bit of the problem unless you stay. You don’t have the right to raise children in this environment. I know. I left for my kids.

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_Spicy_Lemon_ t1_j6ox91w wrote

Reply to [19f] [20m] I need help being kinder to my boyfriend. by L0V3LY-SAVV

Is your boyfriend the first person you realized you have been lashing out on or have there been other people? Do you lash out on friends? Family? Coworkers? Teachers/professors?

What do you mean by "lashing out"? Can you give examples please? When you lashing out, do you acknowledge it with them or do they have to bring it up? What do you do to apologize and own up? Have you tried anything to control your emotions and actions?

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