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slippery_eagle t1_j6op21r wrote
Some people had/have no parents. I sure would have been happy with a call or two from my 'dad' when I needed support but he didn't care about me.
Don't have a mom, either.
ThrowRAdrmr OP t1_j6op0xr wrote
Reply to comment by SleepFlower80 in My(28F) bf (28M) seems misogynistic towards women drivers but has progressive values. by ThrowRAdrmr
It is a gravel parking lot just the height of the lower part of the rear door. The damage is not much but it got stuck under the car as I turned.
He can't be identified from the video but it looks like him and the boulder was moved from the parking lot fence to near my car.
sugarmag13 t1_j6ooyzq wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in My fiancé (35M) and I (33F) don't want to invite someone from our friend group to our wedding. by [deleted]
If you feel comfortable removing one person from the group go for it.
If it didn't feel off to you, you wouldn't be asking.
I think it's in bad taste but it doesn't seem to be to you and your fi
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SeymourBughts t1_j6oox2a wrote
Reply to comment by wwcat89 in My fiancé (35M) and I (33F) don't want to invite someone from our friend group to our wedding. by [deleted]
lol, I mean, not the worst idea.
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urban_accountant t1_j6oovlx wrote
Reply to comment by temporarylossofmind in My boyfriend (28M) is refusing the vaccine because Bill Gates just came out saying it was ineffective. How do I convince him to get the vaccine for my (26F) safety? by [deleted]
Where did you get that from my response? No. I said you're vaccinated so you have no worries if he doesn't. I've only seen 1 job post require it.
Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6ootw5 wrote
Reply to comment by judgejudyOG in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
Oh my god. I really dont want to do any harm to her. Can you please advise me on how I can work on my insecurities and what harm it might cause to her if i dont?
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temporarylossofmind t1_j6oooo9 wrote
Reply to comment by urban_accountant in My boyfriend (28M) is refusing the vaccine because Bill Gates just came out saying it was ineffective. How do I convince him to get the vaccine for my (26F) safety? by [deleted]
I should break up with him, right? He won’t vaccinate. He doesn’t get some jobs because he won’t vaccinate.
wwcat89 t1_j6ool77 wrote
Reply to My fiancé (35M) and I (33F) don't want to invite someone from our friend group to our wedding. by [deleted]
Unethical hack: check her socials. Does she have an annual family cottage wedding year after year? Pick that weekend for your wedding.
[deleted] OP t1_j6ookpz wrote
Reply to comment by sugarmag13 in My fiancé (35M) and I (33F) don't want to invite someone from our friend group to our wedding. by [deleted]
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temporarylossofmind t1_j6oojfc wrote
Reply to comment by McSuzy in My boyfriend (28M) is refusing the vaccine because Bill Gates just came out saying it was ineffective. How do I convince him to get the vaccine for my (26F) safety? by [deleted]
Yes. Everyone around me should be vaccinated and boosted. Or else I have to wear two masks.
urban_accountant t1_j6ooj02 wrote
Reply to My boyfriend (28M) is refusing the vaccine because Bill Gates just came out saying it was ineffective. How do I convince him to get the vaccine for my (26F) safety? by [deleted]
If you're vaccinated you have nothing to worry about if he doesn't.
SleepFlower80 t1_j6oohq2 wrote
Reply to My(28F) bf (28M) seems misogynistic towards women drivers but has progressive values. by ThrowRAdrmr
A boulder? A boulder big enough to damage your car but small enough for you to not notice? This whole thing sounds like bullshit
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DigPsychological7128 OP t1_j6ooei3 wrote
Reply to comment by Demons_EnthusimQueen in Me (F27)and my autistic boyfriend (M27) by DigPsychological7128
Thank you. I also told him that his actions tell me what he thinks about our relationship. I am aware that I was pushing him maybe too much, to get a job and try to move out, but if he wants a life with me like he says he does, he should do it. My family who has less money then his is ready to help us financialy and get a loan for the visa, and I just feel embarrassed how inmature he is acting about that.
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[deleted] OP t1_j6oodpp wrote
Reply to comment by JFC_ucantbeserious in Husband [35M] insists on keeping the TV on when WFH It’s bothering me [31M]. by [deleted]
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judgejudyOG t1_j6ooc8c wrote
Reply to I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
This is why children shouldn't be in "serious" relationships. You will end up damaging this girl if you don't deal with your insecurities.
McSuzy t1_j6ooc59 wrote
Reply to My boyfriend (28M) is refusing the vaccine because Bill Gates just came out saying it was ineffective. How do I convince him to get the vaccine for my (26F) safety? by [deleted]
It's January of the year two thousand and twenty three.
You're just now feeling unsafe because your boyfriend refuses the vaccine?
KitPipin t1_j6oob4b wrote
Reply to comment by Personal_Change_7949 in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949
And what that supposed to mean?
That was yet another of your "incidents" and you were already bitching and moaning about her lack of interest regarding ... distance between two colleges?
Seriously? "Mah beliefs were shaken". And then crying in the comments that she's not thinking about you together. All this while expecting what exactly from her? Moving closer to your college? Or what? Was this drama for drama fake crying?
Bruh.
Are you in drama class?
[deleted] OP t1_j6op4pu wrote
Reply to My boyfriend (28M) is refusing the vaccine because Bill Gates just came out saying it was ineffective. How do I convince him to get the vaccine for my (26F) safety? by [deleted]
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