No it’s not. No one here is going to know what’s going on, we don’t know her and we aren’t mind readers. In relationships, you have to use your words.

That will need to end buddy, the relationship can't work as she's had an affair. Not saying it won't hurt but better long term.

Yeah, boy, thumbs up. Mature as your behaviour.

What are you going to whimper about next?

We got a post about "future" and "further education".

We got a post about times when she was freaking single.

What's next?

Just wondering...

That’s so forward

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Ask her

Given your previous post, I'd boot you out, not check shit.

Again, going through someone's stuff is not "come across".

It is trash, but do you see how decisive the comments are about tipping. Tipping shouldn’t be something to be scrutinized, criticized or argued about. Employers should pay there employees properly. It’s not on the customer to make sure that the employee makes a living wage. That’s why I no longer go to restaurants or order delivery. I make it at hole or go pick up my own food.

It’s crazy that people are being called names for not being able to afford tips or deciding for themselves how much to tip.

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>He was unfaithful at the start, he refuses to act mature, and he refuses to take initiative about our relationship's future and get a better job. All he does is be passive and play video games all day. Is this all a symptom of autism, am I expecting something that he can't possibly do?

Autism is different in everyone. Everyone who is autistic has similar symptoms but not all of them. I'm Autistic, and I have poor communication skills but I understand right from wrong.

His actions are speaking louder than his words. He cheated, you're a second option, won't take initiative, won't look for a better job which can be a symptom of autism because it requires change but with the right support and whatnot, it can be done.

I honestly think he's looking for someone to replace his sister. From your post, it sounds like he doesn't even do chores or helps his sister out.

You are asking for the bare minimum in a relationship, in which he refuses to provide or comes up with excuses. Think really hard about this relationship, because I think you'll become a replacement.

What all I should not be doing and what all I should be doing instead? I realise i was being a big time dick.

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She did check mine a month before that so...

Your example is bad, his father was in the HOSPITAL.

But if this stuff happens regularly, where he doesn't acknowledge anything you say, even when he isn't dealing with an emergency, that's a problem.

You violated her privacy, you are controlling, you are insecure, you are straight up immature.

Probably bc you're immature as fuck, your post history is pretty revealing.

Can you please elaborate "Her dealing with your shit is straight up tragedy"?

Oh my gooood.

You checked her phone?

That was so not "came across".

Jezuz, you went so far as to violate her privacy.

Why is this not in the post? Oh, maan.

Pathetic.

If he needs auditory stimulation during the workday, he should be the one wearing headphones and listening to nursery rhymes or whatever else he wants so only he can hear it.

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Headphones for him??

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He does give me money when I need it. But we are constantly covering each other until pay day.

I admire your ambitions but I do have a heart for the kid haha she is only 1 years old

He never used to be like this?

You've been dating for six months.