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KitPipin t1_j6ojg3a wrote

Reply to comment by Personal_Change_7949 in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949

Do you... do you know what the word "incident" means?

She was single and had a crush - none of this is your damned business.

Just like her plans for college. You know, we can see your post history.

That's not an incident. Her getting with you was an incident.

Her dealing with your shit is straight up tragedy.

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Parking-Chocolate381 t1_j6ojb0p wrote

Reply to am i (f21) being irrational for getting mad that my boyfriend of two years calls his girl best friend baby (m20)? by ThrowRAhfbsnjsfjif

he’s totally gaslighting you and definitely either likes his gbf or likes the attention from her. bad either way. he also sounds super immature and like a person that doesn’t even consider your feelings or point of view and instead invalidates them. you shouldn’t be with someone like that

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Reply to Husband [35M] insists on keeping the TV on when WFH It’s bothering me [31M]. by [deleted]

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WeeklyConversation8 t1_j6oizij wrote

Reply to I (f30) want my boyfriend (m33) to make more money but he doesn’t want me to bring it up again by [deleted]

He doesn't care that you're running yourself into the ground while he barely works. He doesn't understand that him taking the training job would have put him a step or two closer to owning a gym.

He has no path to achieve his dream of owning a gym. At 33 he should have it mapped out. It's not simply train some people here and there and then you open a gym. Like another person said, a trainer is a side gig.

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Personal_Change_7949 OP t1_j6oiy9m wrote

Reply to comment by Love-tea in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949

Thank you so much. This helped a lot. First thing tomorrow morning I'm going to apologise to her for checking her phone. And..it is already being hard for me to maintain a healthy relationship. I really dont want to, but i get riled up at the slighest thing. I really want to work on this but have no idea how to. Can you maybe give some advice on that too? And thanks again.....your answer helped a lotttt

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Reply to Me (F27)and my autistic boyfriend (M27) by DigPsychological7128

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KitPipin t1_j6oits4 wrote

Reply to comment by wickednymphet in I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush before me. by Personal_Change_7949

If that's the same girlfriend as the one from his previous post, then I'd suggest running away from him as fast as possible.

He's already way too needy, way too exhausting and expects her to bend to his whims and insecurities.

However, if asked, he'd deny it as fiercely as one can.

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Strange_Rush398 OP t1_j6oiojg wrote

Reply to comment by MckittenMan in What are the signs to end a long term relationship? I'm a 26F with a 27M for 8 years by Strange_Rush398

He's not that hard working. He doesn't have the drive to motivate him. He isn't a morning person. I always have to drag him out of bed. I wish he would motivate me to get up some days. He does whatever is easiest. If it means something is extra work then he won't pick that options.

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mad-melon t1_j6oin3l wrote

Reply to What are the signs to end a long term relationship? I'm a 26F with a 27M for 8 years by Strange_Rush398

Passion fizzles but love remains. It’s normal to not like everything about your SO, but it’s about how you approach it that matters. Are they idiosyncrasies and imperfections that you can overlook/learn to love? Or are they more fundamental attributes or value differences that are much, much harder to compromise on? If you let differences simmer below the surface too long, the more likely you are to categorize those as the latter, so I think to maintain a healthy relationship (and possibly revive back that love, if some has been lost) you need to face those things that you say you dislike about him. Hopefully what you’re referring to aren’t really big deals.

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