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hideousfox t1_j6ocr5k wrote

Reply to comment by Panic_Pixie in [30M][31F] Husband won't communicate by Panic_Pixie

Girl, you know this is not normal. He's doing it on purpose and this example proves it unfortunately. He feels secure and like you're never going to take any action against his behaviour. He will not change... I know it's not what you want to hear, but it would be best if you did not waste your life on this man

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pinuslaughus t1_j6ocov7 wrote

Reply to I (24f) confessed my feelings to my doctor (f25-29) by [deleted]

It would be extremely unethical for your doctor to pursue a relationship with you because you are her patient. She may be a cis woman and uncomfortable with another women desiring her. You have also put her career in jeopardy. No wonder she is standoffish.

She probably feels very awkward around you because she doesn't want to undo any progress you have made during your stay at the hospital. It's probably best to forget about her and move on.

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Misommar1246 t1_j6ocdhj wrote

Reply to comment by aelizabeth3300 in My (20F) Boyfriend (19M) of 2yrs Tipped 10%. Am I Being Overdramatic? by [deleted]

There is nothing degrading about a reality check. 10-15% for someone bringing food to your table is absolutely generous, especially if they’re paid minimum wage. Lots of minimum wage jobs don’t get tipped and nobody bats an eye about them. I’m not angry about the issue, I’m realistic. People beating others over the head for leaving less than 20% are angry.

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Significant_End6011 t1_j6oc920 wrote

Reply to Should my bf still be allowed to wingman? M28 F27 (relationship of two years with a baby together) by secondaccount22223

He already proved himself to be a liar

He broke your trust and deleted the texts (this tells me this isn't the first time he has done this)

He is going out with this friend and meeting hot girls as he requests them to be

He is staying out late at night in unfamiliar locations

He is friends with a known cheater

He is leaving you and your baby at home while he is doing all this.

I would say suggest going out with the friend and your bf and help wingman (females can help too).

I am not buying the wingman story. Either the friend is a bad influence or they are covering for one another. I wonder if the friends ex knows more or has seen anything from your guy.

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Brindarqt OP t1_j6oc351 wrote

Reply to comment by Chitown2181 in My (26M) girlfriend (23F) still talks to people she used to talk to on dating apps by Brindarqt

Thanks so much. I guess I brushed it off since my girlfriend is a "bro" girl and has majority, if not only guy friends. The closest ones she does tend to playful flirt with. Kinda like the occasional "Ay what it do baby?" to them so I just learned to live with it. I figured I was just overthinking this situation with what she normally does with her close friends.

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Reply to How do I (29M) say no to a girl (25F) without revealing the reason? by ThrowRA_say12

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StonksRUs69 t1_j6obsud wrote

Reply to She [F20] asked why me [M20] and her younger brother aren't very close despite dating for almost a year by ThrowRA_120226

That's a hard one to approach.

I dated my ex for about four years, and this was never a concern of hers, outside of her asking me to text her brother now and again. That said, I wasn't close with her older sister or younger brother. Sometimes you just don't have a lot in common with people - that's okay. If you have a family that gets together often (uncles, aunts, cousins, etc.), you'll see a lot of people that don't really have a lot in common but are cordial. You don't have to be close to everyone. Does her brother even care?

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