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Tower-Junkie t1_j6oa5sy wrote

Reply to comment by Limp-Outcome3164 in Should my bf still be allowed to wingman? M28 F27 (relationship of two years with a baby together) by secondaccount22223

It will never cease to amaze me when people think “they’re insecure and have trust issues. I know! I’ll just lie and hide more stuff. That’ll make them trust me more!”

Given the details, I think he’s full of shit and just manipulating the OP. But it’s something people do a lot. If someone has no qualms lying either by omission or straight to your face about something small, they’ll absolutely keep big things from you.

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lucketta t1_j6oa375 wrote

Reply to comment by chefwalleye in My (20F) Boyfriend (19M) of 2yrs Tipped 10%. Am I Being Overdramatic? by [deleted]

Of course you, as a country, chose this system. And of course you or anyone else as a person doesn’t have the power to change it.

That’s irrelevant tho. And for the rest of the world it just feel like you are being ripped off. If someone came to my country and ordered something in my business and I told them that beside my product/service they would have to pay my employees wages too I don’t imagine it would be pretty.

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Reply to I feel like a horrible, selfish, "crazy" gf for having so much trouble with my period and feeling isolated and alone in my past. 21f - 31M by [deleted]

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toomuchswiping t1_j6o9ve8 wrote

Reply to Is my(23F) relationship with my bf(26M) a lost cause? by moonchildishh

I'm sorry to say, your relationship was doomed when he ignored you while you were going through an abortion.

If your partner can't be there for you during illness and hard times, then he's not worth any of the good times, because the good times are EASY. The hard times will really show you your partner's character.

He showed you his total lack of character when he withdrew from you instead of supporting you. You should have ended it right there.

All the other stuff you two have done to each other, while clinging to this dumpster fire relationship just prove the point I already made.

Please put this thing out of it' misery and move on. You deserve to be happy, and you deserve someone who will stick with you during tough times. It's not this guy.

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Reply to She [F20] asked why me [M20] and her younger brother aren't very close despite dating for almost a year by ThrowRA_120226

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Reply to I (f30) want my boyfriend (m33) to make more money but he doesn’t want me to bring it up again by [deleted]

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MckittenMan t1_j6o9l55 wrote

Reply to caught my (21f) boyfriend (21m) watching sexual videos of him and his ex girlfriend by [deleted]

This might be something you won't be able to let go, as hard as you try.

These type of things tend to have a negative lasting impression on your relationship.

When you get these type of jolts to your heart, a genuine deep hurt by your partner. It creates a hole. And that hole, is dam hard to patch up.

I would have a major issue with this myself. Exponentially considering she is still an active friend.

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