He twists everything to find a way to no be at fault. I woke him up one day last week because he was supposed to go get important papers while I worked from home and he was oversleeping. I tried three different times to shake him or say his name, but nothing was working. So I went in and said louder (not screaming but slightly louder than my normal talking voice) "Husband Name, if you were going to get the documents, you need to get up and get going". His first words to me once he was up were "I've told you before how to wake me up. You have to be nicer." He was mad I 'go straight to yelling" when I wasn't even yelling and he didn't hear me when I tried to be quiet...

What is the nature of this clinic?

To start you’ll need an estimated budget. What kind of rent can she afford? How will utilities/groceries be split? If she does go back to school, how will that effect the first two questions? Does she anticipate needing to make any large purchases soon (I.e. will she want to buy a car)?

Start there, see what y’all’s options are.

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“i will only date virgins and have reason to believe you are not. that is non-negotiable for me.”

“i do not think our morals align.”

“i am not interested in dating people with your history.”

honestly how would you get around it? keep your boundary, but talk to her like a human who deserves the truth.

I think you hit the nail on the head with me feeling like he fell in love with the wrong person. So when he said he wanted to be with me and divorce her, I believed him. Well they didn't get divorced for another 2 years. And I stuck around like am idiot. Because he made me believe that we were meant to be together. So why am I fighting for this? I guess because I truly believed him when he gave me his reasons for cheating, when I told me I was all he wanted. If I could go back I would change a lot because I didn't realize how much I was being used. But then I use the excuse that it was the situations fault not his fault which is why I stuck around. I appreciate you taking the time to respond. I know be isn't the person he pretends to be. It's just hard excepting that.

He isn’t supposed to drive at certain hours. He has an occupational license restricting him from doing so. I don’t want to jump on his back or yank on him to stop him, so idk why but I threw the tissues. Because the protective dog was between us and barking nonstop, I can barely yell loud enough over the barks. Then I walked up to him after throwing the tissues because the dog had moved at that point and asked for keys. He was facing the door and I was behind him. I was not between him and the door. He turned around and That’s when I was pushed into the closet and he held me there while yelling something. Idk what anymore.

Holy shit you Americans are bizarre. I need to pay my food and the restaurant pays the servers. The stuff you got going there is just bonkers. Paying 20% of my bill to a employee of the restaurant or be mistreated is beyond crazy.

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That's the main problem because he only cares about stuff that affects him. I mean you can try and make him realise he's at fault, but it seems like he's entirely unresponsive and does not want to work on the relationship. The longer you stay, the more time you waste.

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Oh yeah the root issue here is marrying someone you met at a bar.

I do feel lonely, even when we are together. We were watching a movie and he was staying at his phone for most of it just scrolling through Facebook.

I just want to feel wanted...the only time he shows interested in me is when he wants to get physical, and I am just not interested with this emotional gulf in the marriage. And he thinks that's the main problem...

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