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Oh wow, look at him whining in his edit. Is this man a predator or what?

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Dating someone you met at the bar isn't the problem, the problem is you went and married a red flag factory.

There are plenty of people at the bars who are NOTHING like this. You married someone who is incompatible with you, and I don't understand why you did this. You need to leave. You need to repair your relationship with your parents by explaining who he is. You need to move out on your own.

I agree. And then act shocked pikachu that they want to live out their early 20s

That’s a very small amount of money for a 28 year old man and the dishonesty is very weird

You don't want biological children and he does. This isn't going to change for you. You have very good reasons why you don't.

Your husband cannot read your mind, even at 7 years of marriage. Ask to talk to him in private and tell him what is going on in the moment. If you explain the issue, he would have an easier time understanding the problem and solution. Right now, all he knows is you didn't eat much and you're mad at him.

As someone who has parents, understand this: they forget what they learned about pregnancy and development pretty fast. Kids are a whirlwind. She also had different information in her time, which probably promoted eating vegetables straight from the dirt or something for added minerals. I have a hard time believing there was any real malice.

Honestly it sounds like you shouldn’t be together. Not to be that redditor that’s like “ break up immediately” but it seems like what both of y’all want don’t align. He’s probably embarrassed that you out earn him which could be why he lied about his salary. From what I’ve read it sounds like you want someone who’s career oriented or a high earner, you should look for someone like that. He doesn’t seems to be that and there’s no use to try to coach him into it.

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It's also kind of weird not to let her have the years that he did have.

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You said you weren't here fo discuss the age gap, yet here you are.

Okay so then stop complaining when your gf acts her age

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The dishonesty would have been the end for me.

Thanks for your help

This guy 👆🏻sounds incredibly naive

How long have you been together? If you are a solid and established couple then it’s fair to say that you don’t like it and ask him to stop.

Of course we want to trust those we love. But when the actions are so at odds with the words, something's not right. Trust your gut.

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If you don't want your barely out of highschool girlfriend to party like a 20 yr old , maybe date someone your own age who wants to stay home and be old with you .

Sounds like It’s time to stop being that passive boyfriend and find your backbone. She should have just been downgraded back to just gf. She clearly does. Not respect you at all. You are going to have some self respect and lay down some boundaries in your relationship.

Yeah I guess I just have a hard time trusting myself. And when he tells me he is being truthful with me I want to trust him, even tho it doesn't add up.

Therapy