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Your man should have parted ways and came home at this point though. That is really immature on his part.

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She's an adult. She should get her finances in check. You can't be a walking, Talking ATM. She should learn to balance her income.

Did he show you the Instagram messages where the person reached out offering money for them?

Long distance relationship, plus she has cheated before and now she's keeping potential side dudes on IG? Do you want some more red with that flag?

Woman here telling you... Run for the hills.

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Assuming you were bullied, would a letter something a lot the lines of this be SO bad?

“This isn’t about me, but I was unkind to you back in (x) and I want so badly to apologize to you for my cruelty. It was never an issue with you, but it was born my own shortcomings. You don’t need to respond to this message and I’d understand if you don’t forgive me. I sincerely wish you well.”

Would that really upset you? Is that really a statement from “an annoying insect”?

Seems kind of shallow

So you think that restaurants are not making massive profits by expecting saps to pay the staff through tips if the restaurants were regulated properly then wages would go up and profits would go down but no restaurant would go under paying normal wages if that is the case it is not a viable business! Your comment is based on the premise all restaurants run at a loss which is why the can’t pay staff what? You think the owners are losing money feeding people. You are painfully naive!

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I’m not trying to undermine him at all. He’s from Switzerland, I’m from Germany. I never said it’s his fault and all I wanted was my legitimate fear to be taken seriously.

i agree. part of me thinks someone we know is behind it but we have no idea who.

You know you can't trust her.

Do you really want to marry someone you can't trust?

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Go to therapy. Seriously.

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It's shocking! It's crazy! Blah blah blah.

It's how it works and it's just not that hard.

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It's never a one time thing. He's only sorry he got caught. Throw him with the trash and build yourself up. Anyone that disrespects you like that isn't worth your time. Let alone your love.

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I don't know, even when I was in countries with tipping culture, I like to pay the price I can see listed. If you want me to pay more, then raise the price instead of expecting charity.

That’s the funny thing. He doesn’t pay for shit for me. He bought me a couple nice gifts for Christmas. I pay for everything and work super hard for my money. That’s why I’m like damn, I’m not even getting money and she is??? Hahaha. She literally just getting handouts from him.

Random strangers actually trick people into sending nudes by saying they’ll pay them for it just to send them out to all their friends and family? Seems like a lot of work to do for no personal benefit other than seeing someone’s life ruined.