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missiemiss t1_j6my6jj wrote

Reply to comment by ThrowRA-wwydiw in Is he M45 F20 still in love with his ex? by ThrowRA-wwydiw

Because he’s not over her - he still feels for her and her plight. He’s got his hand in many honey pots - maybe she went back home because her visa was up - if you don’t work on a work visa you go home / if you don’t got to school on an education visa you go home. Are you sure he is telling you the truth about this?

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nomaki221 t1_j6my0z5 wrote

Reply to Is he M45 F20 still in love with his ex? by ThrowRA-wwydiw

STOP talking about marriage and having kids with this man. You are not even legal to drink yet. You THINK you’re grown and ready for this and understand the “world of adults” because you’ve been around them but your brain is not done developing and you DON’T. Do future you a favor: keep dating this guy if that’s your thing but use rigorous protection and NO MARRIAGE talks. You will never “fix” this man and his child bride fantasies. He will look for the next child to exploit once you come to your senses. Why do other adults who are just as mature and wordly as you steer clear away from this shitbag of a man? Why does he only attract poor young girls from third world countries? Because you’re not as adult and mature as you think you are if you’re falling for this fool’s bs.

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Lil_lib_snowflake t1_j6mxig9 wrote

Reply to comment by ThrowRA-wwydiw in Is he M45 F20 still in love with his ex? by ThrowRA-wwydiw

Genuinely hoping you consider seeking therapy because that preference sounds like it may have some deeper emotional baggage attached to it and you deserve to find someone who is your equal and your partner. Dating men who are twice your age and habitually go for women yours is rarely going to work out well for you. There’s a reason they are still going for the young, naive girls. You’ll eventually mature and they won’t. Who they are now at their big age is who they will likely always be.

Edit: not nearly twice, actually twice

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[deleted] OP t1_j6mxbnk wrote

Reply to I (18F) accidentally cheated on my BF (20M) at a party but now I have feelings for the other guy by [deleted]

You don't "accidentally" cheat, it's not a thing! You got drunk and cheated and then

>Obviously I felt guilty but I started to have feelings for the guy and have even been sexting him nudes.

You continue to cheat on him

>I know I'm in the wrong but I have feelings for the guy but don't want to break it off with my current boyfriend

You should tell you bf what you did, not because you have feeling for the other guy but to give your boyfriend a minimum respect. I mean you cheated on him, don't you have an ounce of respect for him???

>, I went to the other guys house and after we finished

Seriously, how that is not an accident, it a choice you make to be a cheater

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Yuucliwood t1_j6mx9hl wrote

Reply to I (20mtf) went on a very nice date with a guy (19m), who lied to me afterwards. Second chance? by Curious-Wear2947

If this guy Steve had come here for advice, the vast majority of it would lean towards him working on himself before building up a romantic relationship. He's not in a place where the extra work that comes with it is going to help in my opinion.

It is entirely up to you whether you want to keep in contact with Steve or not, but it is not in your best interest to have a relationship beyond that of friends as things currently are.

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