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Reply to I M27 will never get to celebrate valentines day propperly with my girlfriend 22f and it's making me upset by ThrowRasadbf5152

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rekkodesu t1_j6mo45b wrote

Reply to I [30M] found lingerie I’ve never seen before in my wife’s [24F] work bag. by [deleted]

Yeah I don't um... leave residue on my underwear just trying them on for a moment. She was definitely wearing those for a while. For someone? Who knows. Women do wear sexy underwear for just themselves. I know I do.

But also skimming posts maybe you're kind of an asshole, so maybe just accept your relationship is ending and move on separately.

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Redd_81 t1_j6mnitb wrote

Reply to My (21m) girlfriend (20f) cheated on me. by [deleted]

There will be a point, it may be 1 year... 5 years....10 years.... from now when you will look back to this moment and ask yourself 'Why the fuck did I take her back?'

Hopefully, it will be before kids, marriage, and a mortgage are in the mix. But who knows...

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Boredandsleeps t1_j6mnabi wrote

Reply to [30M][31F] Husband won't communicate by Panic_Pixie

Then do as your therapist suggested and take a break but don't go back to him if he starts to make pretty promises. Let him know that he has to put the work into the marriage and himself if he wants to even have the chance of getting you back. If he doesn't then your marriage is effectively over.

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RiverSong_777 t1_j6mmyi1 wrote

Reply to My (22M) girlfriend (21F) keeps hanging up on me during arguments by ThrowRA_Zeugg

If you tell someone that you don’t want to be disrespected and they keep disrespecting you, it’s time to reflect ob what they’re adding to your life that makes up for that sort of behaviour. I know it‘s not easy to act on something like this but at least be aware that this isn’t normal behaviour in an adult relationship. You deserve to be treated better.

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angradillo t1_j6mmlr8 wrote

Reply to comment by Dummkopf_Idiot in I [M22] have fallen in love with someone [F22] who doesn't feel the same way about me, and It hurts. I don't know what to do. I need advice. by Dummkopf_Idiot

You can either continue to throw this pity party for yourself and suffer, or accept that something you only perceived as true never really existed in the first place. That is adulthood, welcome to it.

Do some hobbying, go for a walk, hit the gym, or read a new book. Then, get back into the game.

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Reply to [30M][31F] Husband won't communicate by Panic_Pixie

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  • We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors

  • Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. (Including but not limited to: slut, bitch, whore, for the streets, etc. It does not matter to whom you are referring.)

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  • No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. Examples include, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, PUA, FDS, MGTOW, etc. This includes, but is not limited to, referring to people as alpha/beta, calling yourself or users "friend-zoned", referring to people as Chads, Tyrones, or Staceys, pick-me's, or pornsick. Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list.

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CollectionMost9526 t1_j6mmfkm wrote

Reply to My (21m) girlfriend (20f) cheated on me. by [deleted]

Nah, don’t entertain the idea of getting back with her. Being cheated on his highly disrespectful to yourself and if I were you I’d really reconsider if you could actually forgive her. Needless to say you’re 21, why carry on with someone who disrespects you. You should probably have an onto the next mentality at this point in your life.

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