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Odd-Sock2486 OP t1_j6m1478 wrote
Reply to comment by bezrodnyi-kosmopolit in (25F) my (29M) boyfriend will break up with me if not moved in. by Odd-Sock2486
Yes, when we talked about it he said he wants me to pay more on the electric bill since I'll be home more than he does. Everything else is 50/50 but his place isn't the cheapest either.
sportxsport t1_j6m12z0 wrote
>Do you think he wants me to move in so badly only to pay what he can't offord?
100%.
Don't do it.
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Reply to Ex-girl (f27) has boyfriend she seems in love with but misses me (m27) by Parking-Shoulder7794
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bezrodnyi-kosmopolit t1_j6m0yc2 wrote
Why would you be paying extra? Won’t you two be paying for one place instead of 2?
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[deleted] OP t1_j6m0rh8 wrote
Reply to comment by PF-Changs in My (27f) bf (28m) keeps sending money to a girl he just met online, when he knows I’ve been struggling financially. Any advice? by [deleted]
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trishsf t1_j6m0qxz wrote
I think it’s a terrible ultimatum. Awful. His reasoning was that he doesn’t want to move. It wasn’t that he loves you and that he’s planning to marry you. Think about that. I’m sorry
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Reply to My 22F girlfriend of 1 month cheated on me 32M and lied about it what should I do by [deleted]
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Odd-Sock2486 OP t1_j6m0jv3 wrote
Reply to comment by tossout7878 in (25F) my (29M) boyfriend will break up with me if not moved in. by Odd-Sock2486
I eventually do yes! But can I right now? Not likely :/ I do see a future with him, and I do plan on getting a higher wage job.
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tossout7878 t1_j6m0dz4 wrote
Are you planning on moving in with him eventually? You already stay there half the week so what's your long term plan or goal with this?
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dv9009 t1_j6lzyfw wrote
Haha come on, it is clear she is cheating. That excuse is horrible.
PF-Changs t1_j6lzxw3 wrote
Reply to My (27f) bf (28m) keeps sending money to a girl he just met online, when he knows I’ve been struggling financially. Any advice? by [deleted]
There are no good picks but the person he’s sending money to is below. You’re dating an idiot.
1- a man cat fishing
2- a woman cat fishing
3- a man and woman team cat fishing
4-9- a combination of the first 3
10- a woman who needs money just as much as you do and your boyfriend sees them both and picks one.
Malibucat48 t1_j6lztt4 wrote
Reply to My father (M58) is planning on having a child with his girlfriend (F33), who is 6 years older than me (M27). by ProfessionalManner25
It isn’t guaranteed that she will get pregnant from IVF but unfortunately it is expensive. However, if she does have a baby, make sure it is your father’s because it could be the pool boy’s. Your father won’t get a paternity test and would be angry if you asked, but you can test the baby against your DNA and get a sibling DNA match. However, unless he catches her cheating or she does something horrible, she is here to stay. Proving the baby isn’t his would do it, but don’t count on it. Sadly, your father is a lost cause.
[deleted] OP t1_j6lzo31 wrote
Reply to comment by Malibucat48 in My (27f) bf (28m) keeps sending money to a girl he just met online, when he knows I’ve been struggling financially. Any advice? by [deleted]
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nexutus t1_j6lzlxx wrote
Reply to Me (20 F) cannot control emotions, reactions and accusatory thoughts towards bf ( 20 M) we’ve dated for 2 years by notaseriousmember
I am not a expert for mental health in any way but I would recommend to you to go for a mental evaluation. The things you say and the behavoiur towards your boyfriend sounds very bipolar.
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Odd-Sock2486 OP t1_j6m17wz wrote
Reply to comment by sportxsport in (25F) my (29M) boyfriend will break up with me if not moved in. by Odd-Sock2486
That's my speculation.