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Do you have proof he owes you thousands?

Lawyer up?

Hell, even a bluff on a lawyer will strict fear.

"I have been talking to my lawyer, and he believes it will be best if we settle this out of the courts, we both would end up spending more money on lawyers than what you actually owe me. So if you want to go to court over this, fine by mine, just know that you will have lawyer fees on top of what you owe me"

A friend of mine pulled that card and it worked surprisingly.

But really.... is that a reason to stick around in a shit relationship?

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Just go BZZZZT!!B every time he repeats the behavior. You'll have to explain, the first time, that this is what will happen when he crosses one of your boundaries.

Bruh

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If you attend therapy, ask your therapist for a way that suits your needs/ style as a couple.

She’s shown you red flags very early. You should heed that and let her sugar daddy have her and you can move on to someone who won’t cheat after a month and try to blame you.

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He’s probably looking for variety when he’s not with you.

Really, his porn choices almost certainly have absolutely nothing to do with you.

Frankly, it sounds as if he might be getting scammed.

She says they are a cheap set , get the details and look them up online... Otherwise get the product that looks for things that shouldn't be there

Get proactive to put your mind at ease one way or another

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He is emotionally invested in this relationship. If she didn’t have a bf it’s likely he wouldn’t be with you but her. Know your self worth and leave him.