Mid 40s isn't quite OAP territory. But he is old enough to be her dad, and that's gross.

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He’s not a gentleman. He’s a predator

also failed to mention he keeps telling me to act mature and shit and i feel like i cant bring up anything bc otherwise he’ll see me as immature and childish. and i really did want him to like me for me (bc ngl i kinda like him) i dressed older and acted more mature, but i think inevitably from day one he sees me just as like a really young girl he can fuck but i’d loooove to be wrong bahhaha

"It feels like he just sees me as a dumb 19 year old that he can fuck and he is not interested in anything that I have to say"

It feels like that because that's what it is.

This guy is a massive creep. Get away from him ASAP. Men do not get with women nearly half their age because she's so mature for her age, they do it because you're naive and easy to manipulate, and women their own age won't touch them.

There are people who get married after dating for 6 months— not that I recommend it. And most people these days have sex after several dates. If not earlier. It definitely sounds like your girlfriend is moving a bit on the slow side. I would find that really frustrating.

i mean i dont really think so bc i am like giving out full on consent so i dont see how:/ explain

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You don’t know what to do, because you are still a teenager, who is dating a senior citizen.

Gross. Stop.

He’s taking advantage of you, it’s that plain and simple. And you know it.

i guess. i’ve tried to discuss what is and isn’t okay physicality-wise but she’s got really bad anxiety issues (we’re both in therapy dw) so she just kind of beats around the bush. i’m writing out a speech/letter to gather my thoughts and next time i see her we’re gonna have a Conversation

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Yeah girl, you understood everything. If you hate it just cut off contact

It has the shape of an affair, stinks like an affair and smell like affair, maybe is it an af... I would separate finances and everything else, yk, just in case, im against snooping but a look at her phone doesnt hurt

yea i think we just want different things, i dont mind being sex friends and tbh the sex is really good but i just wish he was kinda more into me as a person lol

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So you’ve been with her for over half a year and you’re not even allowed to kiss her?

Dont date dad. Find some one on a similar life path to you.

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We've got a bingo.