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themanfromUNCLE100 t1_j6k6aye wrote

Reply to 19F and 44M by tushitouuu

Have some respect for yourself and get a boyfriend your age who's actually interested in you and not your body. Why would you want to be with a guy who is old enough to be your father. Do you have daddy issues? Leave the relationship.

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spoookyhalloween t1_j6k69dx wrote

Reply to 19F and 44M by tushitouuu

Hiii. I do think he is just trying to fuck a young 19 year old. Which is gross. You deserve someone who is actually interested in you for YOU and not just because you’re young and willing to have sex with him. He’s probably not interested in what you have to say because you’re INCREDIBLY young and cannot relate on many things. Please try dating and fucking someone around your age. 44 years old and fucking around with someone barely out of high school is really really really gross.

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PeachDream1 t1_j6k6594 wrote

Reply to 19F and 44M by tushitouuu

Unless you enjoy being treated like a piece of meat, end it.

And since you wrote this, I'm guessing you don't enjoy it.

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Kill_The_Dinosaurs t1_j6k64yg wrote

Reply to 19F and 44M by tushitouuu

>It feels like he just sees me as a dumb 19 year old that he can fuck and he is not interested in anything that I have to say

It feels this way because it is this way.

>I’m wondering if I should bring this up or if it’s not worth it

It's not worth it. You should end things - he's using you and he's a creep.

EDIT: I don't think you're dumb ... I think he's seeing things that way and that you hit the nail on the head about how he views you and how it's made things feel.

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temporarilysux t1_j6k5zu7 wrote

Reply to 19F and 44M by tushitouuu

>It feels like he just sees me as a dumb 19 year old that he can fuck and he is not interested in anything that I have to say.

Guess why it feels like that

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Reply to i (20f) move too fast for my partner (19f) by goth-insomniac

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MckittenMan t1_j6jvcvy wrote

Reply to I (21F) don't know if what my fwb (21M) did is considered cheating or not by buhbutttt

Wow. That's a hot take...

>He said it was because if he stopped asking for them I'd get suspicious that he was in a relationship.

He lied because he wanted to keep you around as a side piece...

I think for everyone involved, its best you go your seperate ways completely. Its obvious he cannot maintain a reletionship and have you as a friend if he is trying to solicit nudes out of you.

And the gf finding out a close friend turned out to be a FWB, never boils over well.

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DplusLplusKplusM t1_j6jv092 wrote

Reply to I (21F) don't know if what my fwb (21M) did is considered cheating or not by buhbutttt

If you and he didn't have any kind of agreement to be monogamous in this "situationship" then he's guilty of lying to you but not "cheating" on you. Whether he's "cheating" on this other woman depends entirely on the nature of their relationship. If they're not exclusive then him being with you isn't "cheating". But obviously if he's promised monogamy to her then he is "cheating" in also sleeping with you. This guy sounds like a pig, sorry. But no, don't tell his girlfriend. Just refuse to see him or talk to him anymore. In all likelihood she won't believe you anyway and then you've made this (seemingly duplicitous) man into an enemy. The potential for him doing some revenge seeking on you is too high to even bother with this. She'll figure it out eventually because people like this guy don't tend to change.

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