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Reply to I (21F) don't know if what my fwb (21M) did is considered cheating or not by buhbutttt

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UnsightlyFuzz t1_j6ji6dq wrote

Reply to My father (M58) is planning on having a child with his girlfriend (F33), who is 6 years older than me (M27). by ProfessionalManner25

Here's what you should do.

  1. Based on prior experience, expect nothing from him as a grandfather or in his will. If you get more that that, consider it a bonus.
  2. Distance somewhat from him because his current situation is rather gross, I agree.
  3. Don't predict whether this specialty fertility procedure will result in a baby, or what it's life will be like if it does succeed.
  4. Don't predict if a baby does result, that he will only be in that child's life a short time. He's 58, he could live another 40 years.

What I have recommended requires you to be a little zen, but if you can achieve it, your upset feelings will be minimized. Good luck with your own family and baby plans. That is where you should focus your attention.

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keitaro2007 t1_j6jh9ko wrote

Reply to comment by Sad-Alternative-9328 in I (21F) am tired of my boyfriend (23M) for not having and savings by [deleted]

Have a discussion with him about how he can’t live the same lifestyle as before, but don’t shame him for not having money. He’s not a deadbeat; it sounds like he’s trying to hustle to get his finances back.

The ex thing is also kind of meh. I would assume that an adult in the dating pool has exes.

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Reply to I [30M] found lingerie I’ve never seen before in my wife’s [24F] work bag. by [deleted]

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Infusion-delusion t1_j6jcclu wrote

Reply to My father (M58) is planning on having a child with his girlfriend (F33), who is 6 years older than me (M27). by ProfessionalManner25

Unfortunately anything you say will just antagonise him and play into his girlfriend's hands. Let him know that she's told you and say you're also trying for a baby so you will both know the joy of new fatherhood and he can have that special bond with his grandchild.

Keep in contact, even closer than before now the children will be good playmates. It will also royally piss his girlfriend off.

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