It’s probably fake but it reminds me of the guy that was so pissed there were kids at the restaurant he was eating at. It was a Pizza Hut. He was mad there were kids at a family-friendly restaurant. Cracked me up.

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He thinks “CF” and being literally unable to be around kids is so normal that people will know what CF means with no context lmao.

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Is this the hill to die on? She is seeing how you will respond. You probably have 1 shot to backtrack and say you are ok with going to wedding. Otherwise I see a breakup in your future

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You’re gross and I hope this girl realizes that before it’s too late.

I don’t expect a vacation, I just want him to have more money for groceries and not put me in the spot of paying last minute after his card gets declined multiple times. I feel like I’m paying the price of the pretty lavish lifestyle he had with his ex.

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Soooooo. I see why she is reconsidering the relationship and any potential marriage to you …..

I suspect that while you 4 bonded over your preference for “CH” lives that you are overly emphatic and they are going along with you - to a degree. “CF” people can love kids and still not want them. You have a long road ahead if this is how you continue to see life - that does not in fact revolve around you.

Your relationship and situation has changed, there's no real reason to "maintain the status quo" if you now just split it like I said there's no need to speculate at whether what you're doing is fair, if the imbalance is too much or too little.

Is this fake or do you really hate all children this much? Listen, I get it, it isn’t what you were expecting, but children being present at a wedding doesn’t have to ruin your life. When I got married we had activity packs that the ushers gave out at the door (quiet stuff like coloring books and stickers) and then at the reception there was more coloring and a paper plane table where the kids could all play together. It was kind of off to one side. No tantrums, no breakdowns, nothing. You need to get over yourself.

I support CF people’s right to choose what’s best for them. But I think you might need therapy to deal with your concerning aversion and your need to make things about you.

As another poster said, the world isn’t CF. Get help. It might be too late to fix the damage to your current relationship, but for your future happiness I hope you explore these feelings with a professional.

You have main character syndrome in the worst possible way. NONE of this was about you and you decided that ALL of this was about you and I also wouldn’t marry someone like that. Sincerely, a child free person who isn’t self absorbed.

You’re blowing this way out of proportion. Them having a wedding with children is not going to impact or cause some kind of effect on your life. If you don’t like it, just don’t go. I think you might be more unpleasant and obnoxious than the actual kids that are gonna be there. Get a grip OP