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[deleted] t1_j6ix2w5 wrote
Reply to Girlfriend (24M) and I (29M) can't decide on splitting costs in semi-LDR by FreedomAccording3025
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TortoisePenetration t1_j6ix0va wrote
Reply to I told my GF (30F) I (31M) don't want to go to her brother's wedding because it isn't CF and I think (?) we may have just broken up because of it? by ThrowRA_MJSA
It seems like there's two kinds of people who call themselves child free, those that don't want to bring a child into a world they think is getting worse, and those who just hate being reminded that kids exist.
It's ok to coexist with children despite not spawning any of your own. For someone that hates kids, this is quite an immature and selfish attitude you're showing...
CheesecakeVisual4919 t1_j6iwwts wrote
Reply to Total power exhange 35M 19F by [deleted]
Gross. She’s young enough to be your daughter and you want to treat her like trash.
anna-nomally12 t1_j6iwwag wrote
Reply to I told my GF (30F) I (31M) don't want to go to her brother's wedding because it isn't CF and I think (?) we may have just broken up because of it? by ThrowRA_MJSA
Has the definition of child free switched from not wanting kids to not wanting children to exist and I missed it or is this… a bit much?
[deleted] OP t1_j6iwl2x wrote
Reply to Total power exhange 35M 19F by [deleted]
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Wild_Owl_511 t1_j6iweok wrote
Reply to I told my GF (30F) I (31M) don't want to go to her brother's wedding because it isn't CF and I think (?) we may have just broken up because of it? by ThrowRA_MJSA
The world isn’t CF. Also, it’s not your wedding.
That’s all I have to say.
TTringsnfarmerthings t1_j6iw42i wrote
Reply to I told my GF (30F) I (31M) don't want to go to her brother's wedding because it isn't CF and I think (?) we may have just broken up because of it? by ThrowRA_MJSA
Dude. Duuuuuude. You can't just avoid going anywhere there might be children for the rest of your life like they're some sort of plague. Well I guess you can, but you can't expect people not to take that shit personally. Look, if they're your friends and you care about them, you suck it up for a couple hours, smile, them pretend you have a headache or something and dip early. But outright refusing to even minimally inconvenience yourself to celebrate the union of two people you claim are your friends, and then going on to make it about YOU and some perceived slight against you? Come on, bro. That makes you look like the world's most narcissistic a-hole.
[deleted] OP t1_j6ivyp3 wrote
Reply to Total power exhange 35M 19F by [deleted]
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BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_j6ivpjz wrote
"He's so kindhearted when he's not raping me and saying mean things!"
How many times does he have to rape you before he's not "kindhearted" anymore?
BabySchizo t1_j6ivnrw wrote
Reply to Total power exhange 35M 19F by [deleted]
Ew. Go to some fetish forum or advise her to get therapy.
sarcasticabsence t1_j6ivn6z wrote
There’s no way he doesn’t remember assaulting you twice. You deserve so much better than this, do not let him hurt you again. Being drunk lowers our inhibitions but it doesn’t change who we are as people. He showed you exactly who he is. Run.
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TattooPuddle t1_j6ivad5 wrote
Reply to Total power exhange 35M 19F by [deleted]
Ew
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Adventurous-Berry413 t1_j6iurq0 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in How do I 29F move on, after my partner 38M ignored my consent? by ThrowRA_HowDoIMoveOn
No he isn’t. He’s a rapist and he’s lying to you. Your age gap tells me everything.
Adventurous-Berry413 t1_j6iumjn wrote
You break up with them, and if necessary take legal action
TattooPuddle t1_j6iu9re wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in How do I 29F move on, after my partner 38M ignored my consent? by ThrowRA_HowDoIMoveOn
Given that he's done this more than once, I'd take a break from the relationship.
He can't be trusted. Plain and simple. Once is a fluke. Twice is a habit.
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Reply to comment by TattooPuddle in How do I 29F move on, after my partner 38M ignored my consent? by ThrowRA_HowDoIMoveOn
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whereisthetvchanger t1_j6itlkj wrote
The only moving on is moving on without him. The first time was unforgivable. The second time means he WILL KEEP DOING IT.
Idgaf how nice he is when he isn’t raping you - and neither should you.
Please leave him.
TattooPuddle t1_j6itjkz wrote
I'd get some therapy for yourself and probably sleep in separate beds for the next little while.
Has he even apologized for what he's done or was it a lot of "oh, but I was drunk."?
ChocolateChouxCream t1_j6ixpxl wrote
Reply to I told my GF (30F) I (31M) don't want to go to her brother's wedding because it isn't CF and I think (?) we may have just broken up because of it? by ThrowRA_MJSA
The one being obnoxious and unpleasant is you. I hope you take all these comments to heart and actually reconsider your stance. The world doesn't revolve around you nor your CF lifestyle. You probably think people with kids can be overbearing about their choice but you're doing the same thing.