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TattooPuddle t1_j6ifjrx wrote
Reply to comment by Somerandomguy1995 in I (20f) feel like I am taking advantage of my boyfriend (21m) In some way. I feel like an awful person. I think about it nightly I cant stop. by [deleted]
You don't have to "get it". You just have to listen to your partner. He knows what he wants better than you do.
Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6iffwv wrote
Reply to comment by ImAJerk420 in I (20f) feel like I am taking advantage of my boyfriend (21m) In some way. I feel like an awful person. I think about it nightly I cant stop. by [deleted]
Yes I would love one! Ive been looking for remote ones. They are really hard to find. Im like desperate at this point I started messaging consultants on social media 😅. If anyone has any tips on getting a remote job that would be really nice or is hiring!!
Kooky_Independent656 t1_j6if9dk wrote
Reply to I (20f) feel like I am taking advantage of my boyfriend (21m) In some way. I feel like an awful person. I think about it nightly I cant stop. by [deleted]
Don't listen to his mother...she has nothing to do with your relationship. Us women are worth it and sometimes we want something nice and expensive and it's ok ...hope he gets the Uggs for you and his mother stays out of your business.
Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6if7or wrote
Reply to comment by TattooPuddle in I (20f) feel like I am taking advantage of my boyfriend (21m) In some way. I feel like an awful person. I think about it nightly I cant stop. by [deleted]
Ok I will again. He said he wants nothing in particular. But I dont really get that
ImAJerk420 t1_j6if5d3 wrote
Reply to comment by Somerandomguy1995 in I (20f) feel like I am taking advantage of my boyfriend (21m) In some way. I feel like an awful person. I think about it nightly I cant stop. by [deleted]
Maybe try getting a job?
TattooPuddle t1_j6iextl wrote
Reply to comment by Somerandomguy1995 in I (20f) feel like I am taking advantage of my boyfriend (21m) In some way. I feel like an awful person. I think about it nightly I cant stop. by [deleted]
Ask your partner. He knows what he wants better than some randoms on the internet.
But it doesn't sound like he's asked for anything else. You need to chill.
Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6ies92 wrote
Reply to comment by TattooPuddle in I (20f) feel like I am taking advantage of my boyfriend (21m) In some way. I feel like an awful person. I think about it nightly I cant stop. by [deleted]
What more can I bring to the table
Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6ierf2 wrote
Reply to comment by TattooPuddle in I (20f) feel like I am taking advantage of my boyfriend (21m) In some way. I feel like an awful person. I think about it nightly I cant stop. by [deleted]
What can I do to make a bigger difference in our relationship? Am I being a bad person?? What can I do better in regards to this?
TattooPuddle t1_j6iely2 wrote
Reply to I (20f) feel like I am taking advantage of my boyfriend (21m) In some way. I feel like an awful person. I think about it nightly I cant stop. by [deleted]
What sort of advice are you wanting exactly?
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Flashleyredneck t1_j6i6jni wrote
Reply to I [29M] got intimate with one of my friends [27F] and I don’t know what to do now exactly. by [deleted]
You are married. You have promised your life to your partner. If you can’t respect that then leave your partner and let them have a life with a faithful person. If ANY friendship comes in between you and your married partner you need to END that friendship. You can’t have both. If the friend means more to you than the wife then leave the wife. If you don’t want to loose the wife loose the friend. This has already crossed over into the danger zone.
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Front_World205 t1_j6hyhot wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in I (23m) downloaded a dating app after a year of dating 4 months ago and my (23f) girlfriend broke up with me today by [deleted]
yes it might be an type of porn but that don’t matter when you have to sort it out and have to interact with it. it not an server. it cheating
Front_World205 t1_j6hybg6 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in I (23m) downloaded a dating app after a year of dating 4 months ago and my (23f) girlfriend broke up with me today by [deleted]
you was going to. an dating app isn’t the same as porn. if it was, downing the dating app open an new realm of possibilities. it different then porn because you have to search it out, you have to talk to people, you will more often then not, share nudes
[deleted] OP t1_j6hu7ou wrote
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ThrowRA-help_me_pls OP t1_j6ht87c wrote
Reply to comment by Ebbie45 in My boyfriend (24M) loves seeing sex tapes/chats/photos of me (26F) and my ex (25M) by ThrowRA-help_me_pls
Alright
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b_from_the_block t1_j6hqbsl wrote
Reply to comment by b_from_the_block in I (23m) downloaded a dating app after a year of dating 4 months ago and my (23f) girlfriend broke up with me today by [deleted]
You are a child who made a childish mistake and is now acting childish over this.
You are in denial
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Somerandomguy1995 t1_j6ifpaf wrote
Reply to comment by TattooPuddle in I (20f) feel like I am taking advantage of my boyfriend (21m) In some way. I feel like an awful person. I think about it nightly I cant stop. by [deleted]
You might be right I think. Ill have to engrain that way of thinking into myself. Sorry 😅