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Toddo2017 t1_j2fu5ir wrote

You’re beautiful, with or without. He was just blown away by you trying, if not grateful you did because he felt like it was for him like you were trying to impress him… he sounds smitten and you’re over thinking. Trust me you’re most likely more pretty than you realize, I bet.

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J0hanNmonster t1_j2fu3wm wrote

I don't think the disappointment is avoidable if she is looking forward to it.

When we are in the same situation as you, we just say it to each other. Of course sometimes there is a disappointment, that's just natural, but we are not mad at each other or anything like that because we love and care about one another.

You should know your gf best so you should also know best how to phrase it. If she cares about you and how you feel, then there shouldn't be big issue.

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HungryTreasure t1_j2ftvvu wrote

Interesting that someone without a dick would make a comment as if they have lived experience with one. It’s almost like what some shitty men do when they comment about the lived experiences of women.

Stretching a condom with your arms, or whichever type of force, is not the same as putting one on an erect penis that requires a steady flow of blood in order to remain so.

You’re embarrassing yourself.

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