I’m not even 1/2 way through reading this and I have no doubt why he’s been married multiple times. Girl I’m not even for divorce in most situations and think people need to work shit out for the kids in most cases, but get TF out. Leave. Do whatever you have to to get out now.

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I'm a lesbian with no interest in penises.

However, Howie Mandel demonstrated throughout the 80s that condoms can stretch to fit an entire human head.

So no, the condom is not too small.

Since he said he had already cum multiple times, he was likely just in a refractive period and would have gotten an election with no problem after a little rest.

So basically his stay at home gf who cooks, cleans and takes care of his kid?

I truly hope you see you need to build your future prospects and your financial independence. This is not negotiable.

If you have your own money, you can go live in your own house away from everyone you dont want to see and create your own living environment.

If you keep on doing this, what will end up happening is that you'll have no money, no job experience and nothing to show for. If he dumps you in the future you would have to start from nothing, which will be so much harder without a college degree and at an older age.

You're only 19. Please make good decisions for your future

Run. Fast and far. FUCKING RUN.

Better than shit still doesn’t always mean good.

If he refuses to let you go to college, enroll in online classes you can do at home while the kid is at school. This will eventually blow up, try and prepare for that.

Oh and,please use birth control.

Hahahaha ok. I look forward to the post in a couple of years when this predator you are so in love with replaces you with another 19 year old kid that he can manipulate and control. Good luck

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Doesn’t make it any less gross, you were still a child.

I think you’re just a troll, honestly, which is truly sad.

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And now she knows she wasn’t crazy either. It’s really fked up to be openly gaslight by your SO. Not a cool feeling at all. You start losing trust in them and yourself.

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She said she's willing to meet in public to show birth certificate and pictures. My SO is still suspicious on what she has to gain if it's fake.

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She’s not into anal. Vaginal sex is great but it’s not the same energy as head or handjobs. It’s nice to be the focus sexually every now and then. Whenever we have sex I control the positions and do all the work and sometimes I just would like to be taken care of and prioritized. I eat her out/finger her all the time I would just like that energy reciprocated.

Yep. Refusal to do a DNA test implicates the possibility of two lies: (a) she's lying about him being the father or isn't actually sure, or (b) the child doesn't exist. The DNA test solves both.

Thanks for telling me something I already figured.

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You’re here because you know for a fact that she has unresolved feelings for these people and can’t let them go out of respect for you and the relationship. You can’t expect a committed relationship out of someone that wants or enjoys attention from past flames. You’re not insecure or toxic for expecting common decency and she’s a Class A narcissist if that’s how she’s made you feel about it.

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