You're young so that's why you're buying that bullshit excuse. He can control it. He's lying and manipulating you and banking on your naivety to believe him.

Break up with him and never look back.

They have never met. But marriage is a merging of families, so it will happen eventually. Regardless, there may come a day where I have to look my sister in the eyes and say I knowingly brought homophobes into our family?

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Try not to let insecurities get in the way of your relationships. Trust that they're being faithful until they show you otherwise. Stick with it.

Was everything else you’ve found not evidence enough????? Are you crazy? What other evidence do you want? Do you need to see his dick in another girl with your own eyes? Honey this man was cheating on you, is currently cheating on you, and will continue to cheat on you if you don’t leave. Please wake up and see that.

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As a pansexual she was extremely hurt and sad.

Okay, whichever troll has been posting age gap/mommy to his kids posts for days now, please choose a different topic to rage bait us all over. This is getting beyond old.

You're 27, young but not young enough to waste more years in a relationship where you're the placeholder waiting to be dropped soon as the bff decides she wants your bf.

Do you want to wait 8 more years?

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Thank you for this. I blocked their number today. It's hard because I think deep down inside no matter how old we get, we just want our parents to love us.

Oh yea, her saying your needs don’t matter is not cool especially since you’re trying while she isn’t reciprocating. It was just unclear from your original post if either of you were getting your own time. And it sounds like she’s getting time, but you’re not. What did she reply when you pointed out that she went to coffee and worked in her studio for most of the day? It seems like something is off if she’s saying she’s not having any time to herself when she literally got hours that day by herself. Would she do something similar before the baby? Like you spend most of the day with her, but then she argues that you never spend time with her? Or is it something new since having the baby? Trying to figure out if her less firm grasp of reality is a long term thing and just wasn’t as big of an issue pre baby or if it’s something that started from the baby.

She is not whatsoever. She’s pansexual. They said it when she was out of the room.

This is the first time this has happened.

Move out.

I’m not that brave :(

Yes, It's normal for partners to be extra attracted when they can see that we have put in the extra effort no matter what sex.

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Jesus christ. What is up with all these 18/19/20 year olds posting about mid-30s boyfriends.

This is a terrible “relationship.” Just stop. Seriously. You need to stop. Dump him and quit talking to him.

>There is no one judging how bad or what level of abuse you received and how you should react or have been effected by it. Everyones experience of growing up is different and how you survive and continue to live through it is your own journey.

I really needed to hear this. I always dismiss what they did to me when I compare it to what I see or hear of others having gone through. And what you said about how your parents treated your grandchildren is true for me too. They never ask to see my son. They don't call to talk with him. They don't ever do Zoom. They live an hour away but basically ignore him. They didn't get him birthday or Christmas presents last year. Abuse sucks.

This is your second post about your boyfriend disregarding sexual boundaries. He didn’t change from 100 days ago, why do you think he’ll change now. Get out before this guy gives you life long trauma. Because that will 100% happen if you keep spending time around a guy who “can’t control himself when he’s horny” that’s a fucking disgusting statement and should’ve sent you running for the hills. You’re young so you might not fully understand it yet. But that is literally what rapists say. He is literally telling you that him raping you is a possibility. Are you seriously going to stick around to see if he will or not?