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Reply to [24f][52f]My mom won’t let me out the house even when I’m an adult by [deleted]

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cheesmanglamourghoul t1_j2faso9 wrote

Reply to [34M][34F] Falling out of love with my spouse. What do I do? by [deleted]

Do not contact Diane. you need to get into couples therapy immediately so you can discuss this with your wife. Your brain is just seeking out the only alternative that I can find to help you cope with the experiences you’re dealing with at the moment. But whatever you do, do not contact Diane she has nothing to do with the situation and it’s totally unfair to try and bring her into it. it seems like your wife has gone through a lot of trauma and she would also benefit from seeing either her own therapist or a group therapy for people who have dealt with parental loss, esp cancer. Don’t throw away an entire life and family on a whim. That being said as someone whose parents stay together for the kids for 25 years, don’t let that be your only reason to stay either. Therapy is the answer.

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