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biteme717 t1_j2f22bz wrote

Reply to [32F][30F] My gf made a hurtful joke and won’t apologize? by [deleted]

She doesn't CARE about how the joke made you feel, she care that you are upset, she doesn't care that the joke hurt you, she doesn't care that you want an apology! When people say things that hurt other people and use the excuse that it was a joke and they don't sincerely apologize it wasn't a joke! I personally with the way she's acting and her attitude, I would tell her that this relationship is a joke and I would break things off with her and leave and I would also tell her that the jokes on her.

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sfak t1_j2f1zh1 wrote

Reply to (34F)(32M) Why men play stupid when you call them out? by ThrowRAgreenapple

This sounds a bit like insecurity. Men can like multiple body types. Women can like multiple body types. Does every man you fuck look exactly the same? Probably not. I don’t understand why you keep replying the exact same thing to everyone. Yes we understand what you’re saying. Your reasoning makes absolutely zero sense though. He likes skinny AND curvy women. Maybe he likes blondes AND brunettes. He might like tall AND short women and everything in between.

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Tight-Cut-4606 OP t1_j2f1wgu wrote

Reply to comment by Azerate2016 in [40m] [35f] we are 2 people in a monogamous marraige. his fettish is killing the marraige. by Tight-Cut-4606

BecUse he kept telling me its just words and I wanted to see if it was. Whenever he would talk about it he would say I would never in reality which is the only reason I let it slide. When I found out he actually spoke to the guy for 2 years prior about it (probably a few times) is when I decided to let him go on to see if he is lying

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Silent_Impressions t1_j2f1qe5 wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in (34F)(32M) Why men play stupid when you call them out? by ThrowRAgreenapple

What I'm saying is that I can be attracted to multiple body types. BBW, curvy, chubby, slim thicc, thicc, slim, fit, whatever else you want to use to describe body types don't matter. All that matter to me is if I look at you and find you attractive. I, like most guys, aren't limited by body type. There are preferences but that doesn't lock you to 1 body type.

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Azerate2016 t1_j2f1q2u wrote

Reply to comment by Tight-Cut-4606 in [40m] [35f] we are 2 people in a monogamous marraige. his fettish is killing the marraige. by Tight-Cut-4606

You entertained his fantasy every step of the way so far, or at least pretended to be on the fence about it, which is probably why he has gone so far with it.

The moment you hear about a fetish/fantasy that you're totally against you just say it, and that concludes everything. You went along with his fantasy so he took more steps to make it a reality. Not sure what else you expected.

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