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SSG_Vegeta t1_j2f13t4 wrote

Reply to (34F)(32M) Why men play stupid when you call them out? by ThrowRAgreenapple

This may sound harsh and it’s not intended to.

You’re not really viewing this right. He probably just has multiple types and likes you individually.

My partner isn’t my “type” by what you see me liking or whom I’ve dated before.

All that said, the way you’re acting, don’t be surprised if you’re no longer of interest to him.

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JFC_ucantbeserious t1_j2f0tcx wrote

Reply to [26M][26F] boyfriend is mean to me by [deleted]

He’s made clear that he’s not interested in your feelings. Do you want to be in a relationship where you’re treated this way?

You say you’re at a loss of what to do, but most people would know exactly what to do: leave.

Being insulted, demeaned, and name-called is a pretty easy dealbreaker for most people.

You get to decide how you want to be treated. If someone is treating you poorly, you either choose to accept it or you stop spending time with that person.

Stop trying to convince him that he’s being hurtful and just tell him, “I will not tolerate being talked to like this, and if you do it one more time I will leave.” And then you have to mean it.

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paynetrain37 t1_j2f0rd4 wrote

Reply to comment by whathuhh23 in [24M][24F] Girlfriend needing more space now.. by [deleted]

Ok but if time is so valuable to you, you could work 2 more hours a week and then she could stop working without changing anything about your combined income. And then you could open up a bunch more hours to be together while also giving more time to her to do her own stuff.

If that still doesn’t fit for you, then you might just have different views on how much time you want to spend with a partner.

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