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Tight-Cut-4606 OP t1_j2ex7hk wrote

Reply to comment by Azerate2016 in [40m] [35f] we are 2 people in a monogamous marraige. his fettish is killing the marraige. by Tight-Cut-4606

It's not the fantasy I have an issue with. Its how far into reality he has bought it. MSsove issue. He may have shared my pictures with his friend. He has discussed with his friend about me having SXX with him, arranged a date for his friend to come... all I this time I work in thr office with this friend and I was clueless. This is no longer a fantasy.

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whathuhh23 t1_j2ewpww wrote

Reply to comment by paynetrain37 in [24M][24F] Girlfriend needing more space now.. by [deleted]

So I really value time. I think that’s why I don’t work a normal job to begin with. I look at it as we have 168 hours a week. We sleep about 63 hours a week(I should say her, I like to stay up a lot and sleep less) She works 40 hours a week+ not including over time hours. That’s 103 hours we don’t spend together plus that’s not including when she goes out on the weekends with her friends. So through life we will spend about 1/3 of our time together. I don’t know about you but I want to be as wealthy as possible and spend as much time with my family and friends as possible before I die. Work less, Play more. Work Smart, not hard.

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Admirable_Share_5843 t1_j2ewni4 wrote

Reply to comment by Mountain_Monitor_262 in [23M] [57M] My father refuses to accept I don't want a relationship with him. How do I end it for good? by BringbackDreamBars

It would not matter as long be dealt with this personally myself and you tell them in any and all ways and they still “won’t know why”. It’s because they do not want to know and just want you (OP in this case) to do what they want to do and to hell with what you want or need.

So OP should just stop playing their game and drop the rope and move on.

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Mobile_Prune_3207 t1_j2ewdmv wrote

Reply to [21F] [21M] My bf refuses to meet me after I crossed the Atlantic to see him for the first time by AdmirableFoxx

Have you actually spoken over the phone/ Facetimed him?

Do you have any proof that he even bought tickets and the accommodation?

Did you see on his social media that his mom really died?

This could the truth, that his mom died. This has not been a great year and it seems a ton of people are dying this month alone. But at the same time, this all seems very cat-fishy.

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Friendly_Shelter_625 t1_j2ew9rn wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in [25m] [24f] my girlfriend might be able to hear my therapy sessions by [deleted]

It shouldn’t distract the therapist. They usually have a white noise machine outside their door and would be used to it. Also, a lot of headsets and meeting apps filter out background noise. My friend and I use Google Meet for weekly chats and I can’t even hear her dog bark when they’re in the same room.

If you have an old radio, tv, computer, or some other device you can play white noise on, just put that by your door. You don’t need a special machine. I’d actually keep it inside your room so your gf can’t move it or “accidentally” turn it off.

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