Leave the woman alone jfc

yes I know that but in 2 years his never came but he’s friends has come in my town to see their gfriend multiple times. But I don’t care about this I’ve come seen in multiple times he still didn’t say anything till yesterday

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No I WANT her to have two middle names if that’s not clear!

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Your wife is acting pretty selfishly considering your daughter is used to her name. She's not property.

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I would certainly say something. NYE is generally a holiday you spend with your partner if you have one because of the midnight kiss. I guess if he has a tradition with his guy friends it might not have occurred to him, but relationships mean making some compromises when it comes to significant events.

I don't think your bf is properly communicating the reality of his situation. My husband was in the Navy for 10 years; his command wanted to be notified if he so much as went out of town on a day trip. you had to put in a request for leave and outline where you would be going- the command would routinely reject anything too frivolous or risky. They would never have approved of a trip to travel outside the country to see your girlfriend. He may want to come see you very desperately, but that may genuinely not be in the cards for him...

Dating is a time to decide if you are compatible. This doesn't sound like you are.

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all due respect I just assumed he wasn’t happy with me. though with how he came to his conclusion about his feelings for her I suspect some emotional cheating might have been at play here

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>About 6 months into the relationship, i find myself physically attacked. Oh right, i forgot to mention she's a recovering alcoholic. The angry kind. I've had to call the cops on her several times and the ambulance once. I've stopped her from cutting herself and had to intervene when she recently tried to stab herself to death in front of me because I expressed an interest in leaving the relationship due to all the unnecessary fighting. But she attacks me as well. I have bite marks on my arms and forehead. I have a broken pinky finger. I have scars from her clawing at me. I've never once laid a hand on her to hurt her. Not once. I've only ever stopped her from hurting herself or I've defended myself. The cops and paramedics have always been on my side.

What the actual fuck are you doing staying in the relationship?

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> As much as I love her I don't think I see myself in a relationship like this for the rest of my life. I want to bring it up but I'm not sure how to go about it without it sounding like I'm trying to force her into having sex with me, or appear like I'm threatening to leave if she doesn't.

Break up. I know that's cliché for Reddit, but break up.

You are fully within your right to be frustrated if you're not getting as much physical intimacy as you'd like in a relationship. But she's also absolute within her right to take things at her own pace because she's dealing with trauma.

You literally said you don't want to do this for the rest of your life, and you don't want it to sound like you're forcing her or threatening to leave.. but you kind of are telling her that you're going to leave if she doesn't fulfill your physical needs.

If you can't accept her for where she is right now, and you aren't having your needs met, then this isn't the right relationship for you.

I would get an abortion. That man is unstable. You need to protect your existing children.

Get out now.

yes that’s the thing he does make me feel special, he always compliments me, makes me feel good, when we are together I feel good but it has been 8 months that’s we haven’t seen eachother and it is always because of me we’ve seen eachotjer cause I’m the one driving to see him

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The "best" in this case being her sociopathic mother, whom my wife despises, but still shares many behavioural traits with.

Has he ever made an effort in your relationship? The saying goes "if they love you you'll know, and if they don't you'll wonder". So...has he ever consistently made you feel loved and cared for?

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