Usually when your partner doesn't care about you you break up with him. You should have answered he should ditch his friends do what he promised.

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You don't have to acknowledge your source of information. Just ghost her and block her. She failed your life partner test.

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Sounds like he’s been trying to have something with her and doesn’t want the two of you to compare notes.

I suggest getting together with her without him knowing and talk about everything with her. And after that , depending on what you learn, maybe get rid of him.

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The project was never yours. You are doing someone else work. The project already has another leader. You are just the free labour doing all the hard work while leader getting recognition.

You need to find your own project with your name as leader.

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I personally believe you should trust your spouse 100%. That is enough to leave a marriage. If you don't believe you have to trust your partner 100% then you don't have to leave. This all depends on what you are comfortable with and how that affects your safety and happiness.

“He’s a big goofball and I love him. But he doesn’t respect me sexually and constantly pushes boundaries” in sorry but I wouldn’t call someone like that a lovable goofball. His BLATANT disregard for your clearly expressed boundary is pitiful. He’s a shit person

Your kid deserves the alimony and child support. It is literally the least the man can do after financially abusing you for so long.

Go talk to a lawyer.

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Some of this stuff I read hear unread it is sort of malarkey. Since the beginning of time people that issues with different things, traumas with different things. They still had sex. In a relationship with two adult sex is an important component. If your little beetles are the same, that’s OK then but in this case clearly, it’s not. I would sit down and have a long talk with her, and either compromise, or decide to go your separate ways.

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I think it's a cool naming tradition. I'm a genealogist and using the mother's (or grandmother's) surname as a middle name used to be extremely common- kind of fell out of fashion by the 20th century for whatever reason.

I think you still have time to change your daughter's middle name without it affecting her much at all. She's 4 and a half... she won't remember a change to her middle name. The two middle names thing seems like the best compromise- millions of people who two middle names and navigate through life just fine.

Sounds like your family is the biggest hurdle to overcome. You and your wife need to settle on a solution and present a united front to the family- say you know they were really fond of her name but after having your son, you realized how much you'd like them both to have your wife's name carry on with them. They may be disappointed, but it's not their child, not their decision.

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For some couples, yes.

For all couples, no.

You get to decide if NYE is something that you want as a "couples" holiday.

She will definitely up the ante.

STOP

>Does anyone know what this is?

I think the term is 'contrarian'

>Is this some kind of manipulation tactic?

Yes. Looks like your wife learned from the best.

He's upset with you for flirting with other people after he broke up with you to persue another girl which is basically cheating. Please grow a spine an kick this man to the curb do you have any self respect for yourself you are letting this crappy awful cheating man control your life an your feelings, he is not worth it an you are worth so much more than this, he is just keeping you as a placeholder until the next girl comes along

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I think this fetish is driven by low self esteem, and perhaps an unconscious desire to self destruct (feeling he doesn't deserve you.

I think therapy could help.