So, I'm trying to decide whether to bake another batch of blossom cookies with candy cane kisses. I have the stuff, but maybe it's time to be back to regular/healthy eating. Decisions, decisions. I have the stuff, but maybe it would be nice to save them for something nice like a snow day.

Idk if he’s going to get better about being better towards you. I know it’s not that other girl’s fault but honestly you could reach out and talk to her about it. Maybe you guys could have “a come to Jesus meeting” about it.

Yea, we have gone off and on over the years. But maybe we need to try again.

You’re not together. He literally finished things with you to pursue another girl. Why are you even giving him the time of day? You’re appearing like a doormat, and I am not saying this to hurt your feelings, but he’s kicking back thinking aw she’ll be right back with me if this goes tits to. Do not be that person. Value yourself and tell him to fuck off. You deserve better.

No she is supportive of me seeing one I just think she underestimates the issues I’ve got to discuss. There are a few issues in the relationship but most of the really negative stuff in our relationship is from the beginning of last year and hasn’t reoccurred since it happened

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Marriage counseling

Is your girlfriend homophobic at all? What does she do when her family says something homophobic?

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You should go. He's not a prize worth winning.

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Ha. I totally get where you’re coming from. You got a decision you gotta make man. There is no fixing her. She is who she is.

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You got a lot of pragmatic and wonderful advice here but I really have to ask: is your girlfriend against you seeing a therapist? My partner is a therapist and during Covid he also had to switch to zoom and I was working from home as well. We were in different rooms of course but whenever I even came close to his office I put earbuds in, same for his supervisions or own therapy sessions- I would feel really uncomfortable hearing something so private! What is going on in your relationship?

Please don't feed the trolls

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She is going to cheat eventually. Better to end it now then waste more years. Clearly she didn’t live you enough not to kiss another guy or catch feelings for another guy. You said she had temptations, so if she hid that from you she probably acted in them.

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He told you he loved another girl. Move on. He was willing to throw away 5 years with you for a quick lay.

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There is nothing wrong in hanging out as long as you understand it will be only as friends.

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