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Reply to [24F][25M] getting married this April, but there’s been no intimacy. We have been together for 5 years now. by ThrowRA_exit_delete

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AutoModerator t1_j2e9pjx wrote

Reply to [35F] [38M] What to do when your spouse says one thing and later on the details change? by [deleted]

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ldsgirl2022 OP t1_j2e9js6 wrote

Reply to comment by Consistent_Patient88 in (31F) (21M) Mutual Attraction? Dealing with a Major Crush On My Guy Friend by ldsgirl2022

I am and I did. I cannot control if he wants a relationship, and that he already started building one. He is sweet to me because he cannot help it, and I tried to ignore it but guys like that are rare at any age. He is very caring and loving. If he was looking for sex it would be different. He isn't rushing. He made it clear he wants to be in my life for a long time.

I don't see why your jumping to the conclusion that things will automatically become sexual. Why is he not allowed to be in my life ?

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TitaniaT-Rex t1_j2e9i5e wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in [25m] [24f] my girlfriend might be able to hear my therapy sessions by [deleted]

Just play white noise on your phone (assuming you will zoom on a computer) and set it by the door. You don’t need a special machine. I play a thunderstorm podcast or a recording of rain on my tent on nights that I can’t get to sleep. There are tons of podcasts, or you can download an app like Calm. They have free white noise as well as paid options.

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