When we first met, we spent a good deal of time together but he got me to notice him as being special when he would constantly mention him and I have the same birthday. It was like he wanted me to know we have a connection, and to not forget it. I think it is a fun connection but it flew over my head that he thought about that and the meaning of that. Moments like that show his maturity.

But he ISNT your age. Even if he seems mature, he hasn’t otherwise expect a man your age would have. Be friends with him if you must, but give him time to mature and grow up a little bit without leading him on.

Block. Ignore. Walk away. Call the police if he continues to harass you. Because if you truly don’t want to talk to him and he won’t leave you alone, it is harassment. But he is also barely an adult and it’s inappropriate if you continue a relationship with him.

He won't leave me alone. He wouldn't since the first moment he laid eyes on me. I thought he was too young to be in my life but he sure didn't think he was too young to be in my life. He didn't like when I would write him off like that and worked hard to show me that he is different. He felt it was just a number, but he was very persistent in being in my life. He also is very mature. Most men who serve a mission mature fast because of the lifestyle they live for those two years. Now that he's in my life it would be shallow to stop talking to him when I already knew he was younger and I already know him so why suddenly judge him over something that doesn't even define him. He presents and behaves as if he is my age.

You break up with him. Sometimes the solution to being a "bad girlfriend" isn't trying harder, it's admitting the mismatch and ending things. Life is hard enough.

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He’s punishing you for breaking up in the most childish way possible. Leading you on then “rejecting” you.

The problem at this stage is you.

You keep taking the twat back.

Just break up again and all this unnecessary juvenile drama will melt away.

If she’s not willing to take a photo of her and the child and send him some basic details, then it’s likely it is a lie. OP says she’s lied to get attention before.

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My god this is exhausting. Are you a bad girlfriend? I don't know because this is all about YOUR EX. who you were perfectly fine to and is now YOUR EX.

You dated this ass for six months and only three of those were worth anything. His background and childhood is all very teary but has nothing to do with you.

What you do now is stop taking to him. Stop hanging out with him. Stop crying to him or about him. Just stop. Expect nothing from him, because so far that's what you've been getting.

I'm sure you are a lovely person OP, but you are 23 not 13. You have nothing to apologize for, especially to him.

Start taking care of you and figure out why this ass is still a thing for you emotionally.

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He is a shitty boyfriend and you keep going back. Stop doing that. He has shown you who he is, he's not going to all the sudden be a good partner. You need to work on yourself before you're ready for a relationship- learn to not accept being treated like a doormat.

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>My question is, could a girl be so heartless to come back to a man just for the sake of the security even if she doesn’t love him?

Yes

Now that being said, perhaps she is genuinely remorseful for her mistakes. You could tell.her exactly what the issues were, and so.long as she's willing ro work in fixing them you'll.g8be her another chance, but that not going to start with her moving back in, that's 6-12 months away.

You guys have been dating for a few months

You guys were apart for a few weeks and she was feeling lonely and isolated while she was visiting her FAMILY. And all she could find to help her with loneliness was someone who she used to hook up with and now she wants couples counseling.

My friend you have been together for less than 6 months and you're already facing this issue, imagine what will happen when you guys will have to be apart for more duration in future?

You guys don't need couple's counselling, she needs an individual one to get over her personal issues and you need to block her once and for all. I can assure you there will be a lot of drama in the future if you decide to stick with her.

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It is definitely possible for a woman to be that heartless. She appears to be a good example of someone with that condition.

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He is barely an adult. Gross. Leave him alone.