Calling what you have a “boyfriend” is a stretch. I interact more with the multi factor authentication system for work than you do with your “boyfriend”.

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No kids Cheater? It’s a no brainer. Should have dumped her a year ago. Get free and get to healing. You will never forget her betrayal.

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This got grosser and grosser as I read it.

Sorry, but it sounds like the issue is that you need a very specific type of constant validation. And you happen to be with someone who likes you for more than just your body. At first I thought his skinnier girl thing was a dick move by him. But reading the rest of this, I don’t think he said that in the way you relayed.

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Change the boyfriend? Don't be with someone who tells you you're too fat when you're skinny already. That's it. Have some self respect.

Have you even told him you posted all those NSFW pics online?

He's marrying you, insecurities and all. If he can't respect that, f him.

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Title! Found our husband of 7 years and two toddler had an affair. He knows it’s my non negotiable and worst nightmare as my own parents divorced when my dad had an affair with a coworker as well. It was discussed and made clear MANY TIMES. We had issues - he think I wasn’t “the girl he married”, not as fun. But I’m like dude - I had two kids, now 2 and 4, with 0 family support (I’m an expat), and I still think I was pretty damn good. Why does he keep telling me I’m a good mother ? It doesn’t feel like a compliment but I can’t explain why. I haven’t worked in 5 years - classic case . 7 year itch. Dependant woman who devotes own life to his career. Find affair right before Xmas. I’m grossed out by how completely basic all this is. And I can’t stop crying . While looking after 2 tiny kids. This was an affair over many weeks with coworker I had to discover on my own, not a confession .

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we usually plan to meet at 4pm. He wakes up by 2 and then shows up at 5:30pm. Sadly alarms dont seem to work for him, I even try calling him but it doesnt work :(

Run and never look back. She's a toxic abuser and user. Fully block her and solve your problems. You'll be better for it.

It feels you're being disrespected and made like a sex tool to your husband isnt it. Just tell.him your feelings once and for all to your husband especially what he has been saying to hia friend. If he is still continuing with this, then you decide whether this marriage is right for you.

Well she probably needs something to extend her reach in the shower, like a loofah on a stick. Or perhaps you could help her in the shower if you took one together. This is a potentially embarrassing thing to discuss with her. Proceed with caution.

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Yes.

And as it’s affecting you so much, it is also a reason to leave him.

And unless he’s meeting you first thing in the morning, his oversleeping is a rubbish excuse.

He’s lazy. If he actually wanted to be on time he could put alarms/reminders on his phone.

As if gay men can’t groom teenagers too. Cmon.

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So leave.

And next relationship try not to destroy it be snooping.

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