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If youre bothered by porn and he wants to use it, then you’re not compatible. Stop trying to police and control someone else’s behavior. The more you do that, the more they’ll lie and hide shit from you. Instead break up and find someone you’re compatible with who you don’t have to police.

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I'm on mat pay, he works Sat and Sun?

You probably haven’t been direct enough with him. Send him a lengthy text of everything he did wrong, things he sucks at, and that you don’t care for him being in your life. Put everything that annoys him in that message. He has the nerve to call you immature. He handled his mid life crisis by leaving his family for a 20 something year old girl and abused you to impress his new toy (her). Sounds like your dad doesn’t understand mature so you would need to explain things at his level.

I'm confused as to who is going to work to pay the bills for your babies?

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I wasn't trying to excuse her behaviour but provide a possibly explanation OP could explore, as his post indicated he's not quite ready to leave the relationship and wanted to make one last attempt at getting her to be honest.

Wait, so you’re upset that he’s going out but he can’t stay with you anyway? So what do you want him to do, sit at home alone?

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No, I would want my dad to give up on me when I repeatedly fucking blocked him. No is a full response. If that father lacked the ability to listen and accept responses from me, then it would only make my life worse to have continued contact with that person.

There is no reason, absolutely none, that makes it okay to harass someone. That's what this is. Making new accounts to keep bothering someone is harassment, the reason why is irrelevant.

It's concerning you don't see repeated, unwanted contact in spite of clear communication to that effect, as a bad thing.

DNA tests don't lie

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I’m in recovery from alcohol for two decades, and I came in very codependent and I still have codependency. It’s a journey not a destination. Good luck to you. I guess I didn’t realize the baby dog was so small. I love dogs and I promise you in three years. That dog will be a champion and do everything the way you want it to but you’re right. A puppy that small is very needy.

Since somebody decided to call me "insane" for going thru bfs phone... we have each other's permission to do so. Thanks. Each relationship is different & has different boundaries. We are both okay with the other going thru our phones tyvm 🫷

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A lot of what you’re saying I do resonate with and appreciate, I do struggle with codependency and it’s one of the reasons I advocated for myself to have girls night out. It’s still difficult to see it as self-care, even with the work I’ve done on myself separate from our relationship. Like, my guilt is split between needing time for myself and needing more quality time together since he’s gone for work for long periods of time. As far as the dog goes, we are training him, but he’s still less than 3 months old. So he can’t be left alone for more than 2 hours in the crate.

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One don’t have enough context, and with the context you gave us with she saying y’all were unkind and you instantly cut them off yea maybe she is right lol you judging someone based of a gut feeling then never had your gut feelings proved right once’s. Lol you were looking for a way to cut them off you don’t care .

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