Correction, she was pregnant and has the kid now. I'll fix that

It’s your body if you don’t wanna have an abortion do not have one. I’m not against having one if you want one or you feel like it’s necessary, but don’t let somebody talk you into it. You were old enough to take care of a child on your own and make your way in the world people people are doing it much younger ages so if you want baby, keep it.

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Wait she’s currently pregnant and it’s been two years since contact….? Is that right? If so, just think about it, dude.

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That is true but it’s time to revisit the issue as an adult.

Feeling shitty didn’t have to last forever. The father wants to mend it but can’t without meeting half way.

Carpel tunnel to the max

He handled it poorly? Of course he did. He was 11. It’s not his job to handle it well. It’s his.

You’ve never had had shitty parent that makes you feel like crap for just being yourself huh?

For us it is, only bc Valentine’s Day puts a lot of pressure on gifts and NYE is about spending last moments of the year together.

NYE is thebmost romantic night of the year? Damn we are definitely from 2 different cultures, in mine it's valentine's day. NYE is meant to be with friends

I haven’t experienced it, so my advice would be to make the decision as if you’ll be a single mother or not, then talk to him about your decision.

Your relationship is new. If it doesn’t work out and you are then a single mother, would that be okay for your life?

If you have an abortion and the relationship ends, will you regret having it?

He may be amazing, and y’all might end up married with more kids down the line. Whether or not you start a family now, your opinions are the most important above anyone’s right now. Speak with a couples therapist if that could help. I wish you well.

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I think you are being a little too hard on yourself. BUT I would probably go hang out and drink till 10 and be home waiting for him when he gets home.

End it, because trust is broken and you will never know what they did and her excuse as to why is pathetic! You also don't need to go to couples counseling when you did no wrong. She IMO is trying to manipulate you into going to counseling because you don't trust her and is trying to cover up the cheating.

You’re being too hard on yourself. Go have fun with your friends. If you’re annoyed your friend is bringing her bf to girls night, say so.

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Maybe she was embarrassed, and thinks masturbation should be done in privacy when no one is looking. You probably scared her by asking her how was her orgasm. Just try to talk to her like adults, her without the gaslighting, and you with getting angry over her embarrassment.

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Ngl, I love it when my wife does that for me. Does'nt need to be explicit. Boudoir and implied lewds are awesome. Have fun 😊

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Yeah seems like everyone's glossing over the fact that she's regularly pissing herself? That's.. not normal?

She needs to get to a shelter for sure. As for the bf, even if it's irritating that his adult gf regularly pisses herself, he's still awful for abandoning her with 0 resources.

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You're not being immature at all, your dad is. You're allowed to not want someone to be part of your life. He knows you don't want to talk to him but because he wants to, he's trying to force it. Even if his talk was about his upcoming apology for childhood, which I doubt, you're still allowed to decide that you don't want it. He knows, because you don't block people you want to talk to.

Find a shelter. Look into local resources.

It's not normal to regularly pee your pants and forget to have a change of clothes. I'm sure you have a lot going on, but these issues should take precedence over whatever relationship you think you're in.

Your homelessness needs to take top priority right now. Find somewhere to stay, find something eat, figure out your next steps.