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F-MegaPro t1_j2cc3cl wrote

You aren't in the wrong here, there's no need for you to apologise and you really shouldn't. The fact that he just left you like that, especially without any money is just heartless. You should be more concerned about yourself right now.

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stevencri t1_j2cboqg wrote

You’re not the one that needs to apologize here. You made a mistake. People forget things sometimes, that’s part of life.

He’s left you from being homeless to being homeless with 0 money and no place to put your belongings.

Unfortunately you’re in a tough situation. It’s easy for me to say to break up with him and find a new partner. But you probably feel you need to rely on him and work together since youre both homeless. So I don’t know what you should do, but I do know that you deserve an apology, not him.

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BridgitBird t1_j2caqmz wrote

Also, it is hard to set the boundary and something for us to remember is that anything that we have done pre- current relationship is none of their business. I have always had ex’s that would be mad at my life before them. Try to use things against me that were before them. I learned to never share my’ past‘life. Just a possibility that you might experience some time in your life. Stay safe and sane. Respect yourself because others might not.

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LeadmeNotFL t1_j2ca2jd wrote

I do this a bunch of times, like a lot, since I was a 14-15. The first time I did it while sleeping next to someone (my then boyfriend, now husband), I panicked when he spoke to me after I was done. He thought it was awesome and I wanted the earth to swallow me. Eventually, he realized I do it while deep asleep and he asked if it’s OK if he just masturbate too while watching me and we agreed as long as he doesn’t wake me because then my orgasm will just go away 🤣.

I wake up most of the time while I orgasm or right after, but sometimes I’d just sleep through it and then realized in the morning it wasn’t just a vivid dream.

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