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F-MegaPro t1_j2cc3cl wrote
Reply to [25F][30M] My boyfriend is ghosting me by [deleted]
You aren't in the wrong here, there's no need for you to apologise and you really shouldn't. The fact that he just left you like that, especially without any money is just heartless. You should be more concerned about yourself right now.
robi983dude OP t1_j2cbxkc wrote
Reply to comment by smashleysays in [18m][19f] advice one ex girlfriend by robi983dude
I’m very clearly In the wrong here I fucked up I know this. What I’m asking is if I should try and right this wrong
MD_FunkoMa t1_j2cbx3y wrote
Reply to [25F][30M] My boyfriend is ghosting me by [deleted]
He's crud. If you have family, lean on them for you to get back on your feet. He doesn't deserve you. You're too good for his idiocy.
Hello_Kandie t1_j2cbuqu wrote
Reply to comment by stevencri in [25F][30M] My boyfriend is ghosting me by [deleted]
thank you so much for your kind words, all I've heard today is to stop being so emotional 💛 thank you
smashleysays t1_j2cbsgd wrote
Reply to comment by robi983dude in [18m][19f] advice one ex girlfriend by robi983dude
Lol ok. I mean keep making your excuses and blaming everything but yourself. Good luck with that approach to life ✌️
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stevencri t1_j2cboqg wrote
Reply to [25F][30M] My boyfriend is ghosting me by [deleted]
You’re not the one that needs to apologize here. You made a mistake. People forget things sometimes, that’s part of life.
He’s left you from being homeless to being homeless with 0 money and no place to put your belongings.
Unfortunately you’re in a tough situation. It’s easy for me to say to break up with him and find a new partner. But you probably feel you need to rely on him and work together since youre both homeless. So I don’t know what you should do, but I do know that you deserve an apology, not him.
AffectionateWheel386 t1_j2cbmk4 wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRapotatonator in [21F][21M][20F] My boyfriend's ex contacted him saying he has a son by ThrowRapotatonator
He doesn’t need to do anything right now. I feel like she’s trying to manipulate him a little bit. I’ve known women they got pregnant by Guy is the didn’t show up properly and they didn’t follow him around and track them.
robi983dude OP t1_j2cbi4l wrote
Reply to comment by sunset_light in [18m][19f] advice one ex girlfriend by robi983dude
Do you have any clue how I should word it. I have no clue what to say
AffectionateWheel386 t1_j2cbasd wrote
Reply to [20F] [22M] My Girlfriend's wealthy upbringing and entitled behavior turns me off. Can i even change her? by ThrowRACarRadio2022
Yeah, she’s not going to change and she’s young which makes a double the worst wait till you’re married, and she wants only the best in the finest things and buy them without thinking about where they come from marry somebody else
robi983dude OP t1_j2cb7cx wrote
Reply to comment by smashleysays in [18m][19f] advice one ex girlfriend by robi983dude
She invited me to her house to watch movies that’s what we did I figured she was happy doing that I never knew I had to do those things
SednaNariko t1_j2cayob wrote
Reply to comment by smolbirb123456 in [24F][25M] My Fiancé denies masturbating after being woken up by it by hypeb1337
Also don't forget the "sucking" noises
Like unless you work for the circus or something you cannot be sucking yourself down there.
smashleysays t1_j2cauug wrote
Reply to comment by robi983dude in [18m][19f] advice one ex girlfriend by robi983dude
Not sure how taking your girlfriend out on a date or doing couples type things would make her uncomfortable.
BridgitBird t1_j2caqmz wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in [24M] [22F] boyfriend slapped me by [deleted]
Also, it is hard to set the boundary and something for us to remember is that anything that we have done pre- current relationship is none of their business. I have always had ex’s that would be mad at my life before them. Try to use things against me that were before them. I learned to never share my’ past‘life. Just a possibility that you might experience some time in your life. Stay safe and sane. Respect yourself because others might not.
ThrowRapotatonator OP t1_j2cagx5 wrote
Reply to comment by AffectionateWheel386 in [21F][21M][20F] My boyfriend's ex contacted him saying he has a son by ThrowRapotatonator
He's not sure whether or not he wants to meet his ex. Also, I have a very pessimistic way of thinking, I just want to have options prepared just in case it is his.
robi983dude OP t1_j2cag3f wrote
Reply to comment by smashleysays in [18m][19f] advice one ex girlfriend by robi983dude
I was scared she’s the first girl I have even asked out I didn’t want to do something too fast and make her uncomfortable.
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Dont139 t1_j2ca6n1 wrote
When you have to justify yourself by daying "that's legal!" It's time to ask yourself why you are such a creep
LeadmeNotFL t1_j2ca2jd wrote
Reply to comment by yallblowmymind in [24F][25M] My Fiancé denies masturbating after being woken up by it by hypeb1337
I do this a bunch of times, like a lot, since I was a 14-15. The first time I did it while sleeping next to someone (my then boyfriend, now husband), I panicked when he spoke to me after I was done. He thought it was awesome and I wanted the earth to swallow me. Eventually, he realized I do it while deep asleep and he asked if it’s OK if he just masturbate too while watching me and we agreed as long as he doesn’t wake me because then my orgasm will just go away 🤣.
I wake up most of the time while I orgasm or right after, but sometimes I’d just sleep through it and then realized in the morning it wasn’t just a vivid dream.
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Layli2020 t1_j2c9rex wrote
Soo you just be manipulative #2 she needs to just leave both of you in the dust, stop working there and block both of you out
Layli2020 t1_j2c9ou5 wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA_TS in [28M] [19F] I'm 'dating' a girl who's in a toxic relationship by ThrowRA_TS
You must be a troll or like your perverted father
Layli2020 t1_j2c9my7 wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA_TS in [28M] [19F] I'm 'dating' a girl who's in a toxic relationship by ThrowRA_TS
Oh no no no don't try and use autism for your behavior
AffectionateWheel386 t1_j2cc5v2 wrote
Reply to [25F][30M] My boyfriend is ghosting me by [deleted]
You need to get yourself some shelter. Your shelter and well-being are more important than your relationship. I don’t know what got you into this place, but you need to get yourself out.