Yeah you are being petty and stupid. AND proving her point that you are mean to her when she has done nothing to you.

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Seems clear she doesn't want to talk about it. Just because you're in the same bed doesn't mean she has to discuss it with you.

So basically the toxic relationship just became a toxic triangle. It is really easy to overlook toxicity when you like someone, but it doesn't change that they are toxic. There is nothing good that comes from being involved with toxic girls and situations. What she needs is mental help professionals and facility. Not have people enable her toxic dependency.

Run from this as far and as hard as you can.

I did not have sex with her/break any laws this is just a emotional thing to me

Usually I would say leave but if drinking was involved I would say give it a try if he will stop drinking.

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First, she's 19, 20 in a month. That's legal. Second, you know nothing about either me nor her. She could be very mature for her age, I could be the opposite of that. My dad met my mom at 29, she was 18. Yet they didn't deserve any happiness because of the age gap or something? Grow up.

This is going to depend on your location and local laws. If you get into an argument or have a bad breakup with this now-adult, could she go to the police and say “the relationship started a month before my 18th birthday. He knew I was 17 therefore it was statutory rXpe”? If the answer to that question is going to warrant a police investigation, STAY AWAY FROM HER!

In the UK, this might be weird and skeevy to many, and you could lose friends & family for it, but it would not lead to a police investigation based on age alone. In some US states, I believe it would lead to some very serious consequences for you, the kind of which leads to jumpsuits and lists you don’t want to be on.

I don’t think you should even entertain anything more with her for so much as a second.

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First off, you’re dating somebody that’s barely more than a child and is in a relationship. Don’t get involved in other peoples relationships and date. Somebody that has a little more life experience or you’re going to be in a world of toxicity yourself.

You're a grown man creeping on a teenager

Well, I would verify that she’s having a child first, and then get a DNA test to make sure it’s even his. But it would freak me out to.

Such constructive criticism, I totally understand why you think that should happen /s

I have to tell you OP that it sounds like she is into long edging and doesn't enjoy the sex with you as much as the edging she can perform on herself.

I would put it to her this way "I could care less whether you masturbate or not, however when I catch you at it and you lie to me I can't accept that. If you lie to me about it once more I hope the lie is worth the potential future of our relationship because we will not have one. Do you admit that you masturbated in our bed before I asked about how the orgasm was?" and stick to the threat.

She should dump both of you

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Your comment about the man earning more turned me off right off the bat. That's gross dude. You just sound mad because she has money. You don't even sounds like you like her honestly

You cannot change her. Or anyone. There's problematic behaviours from both parties, but at least one thing is clear that you're not compatible.

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