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Reply to [43 F] [40M] Would you take back someone who cheated? by GardenGnome4551232

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shygrl__ t1_j2agsjq wrote

Reply to [24F][25M] My Fiancé denies masturbating after being woken up by it by hypeb1337

What I'm most stuck on is why she chooses to do this lying next to you in the bed where the prospect of getting caught is high. Like why not just go to the bathroom? And then when getting caught, she denies and denies. I do think she is definitely feeling some shame around what she's doing, but again why do it with you literally right there?

I think it would be good to have a serious discussion with her about the future of your trust in her if she continues to lie to you. The way the post reads sounds like this is something she just recently started doing as of 6 months ago, so maybe there is a connection there with something else? Has she started new medications that make her libido irregular, or something of the sort?

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