Tired? How long does he last and is in poor health or greatly overweight? Y’all should be in the honeymoon phase and banging pretty much non stop. Which makes me think there is a issue, but it sounds like he isn’t mature enough to talk about sex and satisfying you,

If you can’t fix the sex soon it won’t be fixed and that is really bad for a long term relationship. Sorry!

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Leave the poor dude alone. Maybe he'll find someone he's more comfortable with.

It’s not the talking to others when it was cod I just wanted the first time to be us as I ain’t know the game well and felt left out, and in the game today it just felt we wasn’t playing together as he was finishing stuff faster after I sat I noticed I was being dumb. And it’s leasing to him nit wanting to play with me and sometimes Ik it’s me being competitive cause the sec time playing cod I was more upset that I couldn’t help

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You're not being 'competitive'. You simply don't want him to be paying attention to anyone other than you even in team games. If you can't handle the fact he's going to talk to others when you game,then irs probably not something you should be doing together

Np. Best of luck

Okay thank you for the advice

Might be best to wait till then as it would be easier to start then instead of changing therapists.

Not in yet but will be in a few months getting stuff ready

He knows it isn’t you. He just wants an excuse that he thinks doesn’t make him look like the bad guy. Bail.

If you're in college check to see if your college offers free therapy. They usually do

I was thinking about it but I feel like in person would be better. Also I don’t wanna pay to much for one, I still have my college and etc

See about one of those online therapists

They are so far mann I’m trying😭 Tryna see if my doc can get me one for free as well and find a easy transportation to it

Maybe you should seek therapy to find healthy coping mechanisms so thos doesn't happen.

I try to but sometimes it feel like it’s not getting out or I’m not saying right, then sometimes it feels like he’s not listening which I do tell him

Then voice that. He can't read your mind so you shouldn't expect him to. Talk to him and come to healthy resolutions.

Yeah ik 💀 I wasn’t mad on the more pets really I just wanted to program the same time in a way idk

Well for starters communication is important. If you're upset you should calmly explain why you are upset and maybe suggest ways to alleviate your issues. You were upset cause your bf had the extra pets well then you should have said something to him and suggested how he could make you feel better instead of stone walling him when he tried.

Do you have any advice

Do you have any advice anything would be helpful