Recent comments in /f/philadelphia

jea25 t1_jadjutx wrote

I am one of those parents that will soon be going through the high school application process with my kid and frankly, once you’ve been in the city with kids long enough, you have learned how to navigate the school system, your kids are old enough to get places on their own without you needing to drive them everywhere, and by that point the suburban lifestyle really lacks appeal. There are plenty of people that bail early when their kids are in early elementary, but I think they probably always planned on leaving. I think you can talk yourself into anything, but every time we have seriously considered leaving the city, we just couldn’t find a place we thought we’d be as happy.

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rednib t1_jadimzd wrote

OMC is an extremely good school too if you can get in, its in Chestnut Hill and tuition is pennies compared to GFS. Its a small school though without many extra resources, but the education the kids get is top notch, the 8th graders go on to the school of choice, usually with a full scholarship to whatever private high school they applied to the year prior. Last year the graduating class was small, only 16 kids, but they had over $450k in scholarships, its also a blue ribbon school. Also its not like CCH or GFS in which if you're not already super wealthy, your kid(s) won't be the poor one(s) with all of the rich kids. Nothing sucks more than being asked why don't we have a vacation home too? or why can't we go to Europe for the summer like Sally and her parents...

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fritolazee t1_jadihzx wrote

I'm assuming that if it's a local school that the admissions staff will be familiar with the extent to which the overall student body is or isn't a competitive place, wouldn't they? And then make adjustments in their assessment of a student? Maybe less so if you are coming from a random school in Kansas or something.

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DonQOnIce t1_jadife2 wrote

Right? I seriously love taking trains. I’m willing to pay a bit of a markup over other options to support rail service and because it’s fun. But it’s essentially never worth it when I do the math for the times I want to travel, the difference is way too extreme.

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Callipeartree t1_jadi4r4 wrote

If you are looking at GFS then you might as well look at Greene Street Friends. Right across the street, half the price and Pre-K though 8. I had 2 kids go through there and on to public school.

Someone said above that private school doesn’t matter until 7/8th grade. I take the opposite POV. Friends school for elementary and middle school has been great for my kids to build community with a small group of people, and build up their confidence and independence. By the time my kids got to public school, they were so ready for a bigger place where they could explore, excel and care for their community, but also be secure in themselves.

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