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plowt-kirn t1_jad8m80 wrote

> Edit: what if I just put it into my personal Roth IRA since the taxes have already been taken? And then select 2022 rolll over instead of 2023 contributions? Can I do that?

I don't recommend doing this. For one thing, it probably doesn't make sense to do a Roth conversion unless you are in a particularly low income year.

For another thing, even if you do decide to do a Roth conversion, it's better to pay the taxes from pocket rather than an IRA withholding. IRA contributions are limited and you are reducing future growth by dipping into your IRA to pay the taxes. And if you are below retirement age, withdrawing from your IRA to pay taxes is actually a non-qualified withdrawal and you'll be penalized for that.

The easiest thing to do is to roll the entire amount into a Rollover (Traditional) IRA, including the amounts that were withheld for taxes and penalties. If you decide to do a Roth conversion at some point down the line, make that a separate distinct decision.

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veganvisions t1_jad8m54 wrote

I'm of the opinion that staying with the parents for the year is the best choice. Paying down those debts and focusing on excellence at the work place so you can advance faster may be more worthwhile. Getting rid of the debt will allow you more freedom financially in the future to be more flexible.

I'm personally living with my parents and grossing 80k a year. It sucks for the dating life but I'll be more comfortable in the future with a good financial support structure behind me.

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theoriginalharbinger t1_jad8laj wrote

They're well known among upper crust Northeasterners who want to send their kids to ivy league schools.

That is not "well known" in ant meaningful sense. Exeter enrolls 1000 kids. So over 20 years there have been roughly 5k graduates, or about - out or a population of 400 million in the US - about .00125% of thr population. Or if you prefer it this way, assuming Exeter graduates are evenly distributed throughout the USA, there are 5 in the entire state of Wyoming. To the best of my knowledge - and I'm around OPs income - I have never dated, worked with, or worked for a graduate of Exeter.

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FailingDan t1_jad8k7m wrote

You are likely on the edge if you use the 28% rule (mortgage+taxes+insurance under 28% of gross monthly income). Are the $350k homes livable and of sufficient size for your family? Or are you going to need to put additional money into repairs in the next couple of years? Do they have newer roofs, windows, insulation, HVAC? Each of those things could cost $10-50k dollars easily.

I would suggest putting $2500 in a savings account each month starting now. This will allow you to test if a $3500 payment is doable for you as well as help you save up some more cash for a down payment or to pay off your debt.

It looks like rates are going to continue to climb but hopefully home prices are stabilizing, so you should not be out anything by being slow and methodical about this. When does your lease end?

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Kind_Tangerine2190 t1_jad8emk wrote

Definitely going over the difference between W-2 employees and 1099 employees. A lot of people are doing side hustles like door dash and uber, but don't understand how the taxes work on those 1099 jobs. They end up in a mess come tax season.

Maybe a lesson on cost of making just one meal. Last summer I sent each one of my 14 year old twins to the grocery store with $25.00 and ask them to buy food to prepare a meal for our family of 4 to eat that night. They had to come up with a meal in their head, find the ingredients and do the math to make sure they stayed in the $25.00 budget including any taxes. They both came home stating that was really hard to figure out what made a good meal and what food actually costs just for 1 meal for a family of 4. We had pasta with garlic bread and salad for one meal and the other did tacos/quesadillas with spanish rice. It was a very good learning lesson for them, especially when they complain that I didn't get something they wanted at the store when I shop.

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lilfunky1 t1_jad89ti wrote

> I diagree with this because I couldn't wait to get out on my own and I had and still have a good relationsip with my father and that was 25 years ago. Every ones situation is diffrent. I would however, always plan for the worst case scenario.

Check out OP's posting history for extra reasons to why I believe OP's father will reneg on giving OP the car.

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