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Tenmaru45 OP t1_j2bf1g9 wrote

Ah, good point. I make $75k pre-tax.

My home has appreciated due to updating our kitchen and being close to an area of regentrification--although how much it's worth now I don't formally know.

Basically my wife wants to have a bigger yard for our family/boys and to get away from some neighbors, an extra room since I've been WFH, etc. However, I think this is more of a long-term home if not a forever home due to the financials.

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badchad65 t1_j2bexkz wrote

As someone else mentioned, you need to have a frank discussion with your partner. Generally speaking, when you co-own the house, you split it 50/50. Keep that in mind for future earnings, career goals, etc. Over time, there will also be substantial financial obligations for the home as well. How do you plan to pay for larger expenses such as a 10-15k roof, AC etc.?

For a personal anecdote, my wife and I’s income is close, but still about 60/40 (e.g., I make a bit more to provide 60% of our household income). If shit hits the fan, we split the house straight down the middle. My rationale was easy: if we did split up, I’d have a lot more to worry about than the house.

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Chrismeyers2k1 t1_j2bei9s wrote

Shes paying the mortgage or the rent the same amount regardless of whether or not you are there. You are not a causitive factor in her inability to manage her finances other than she likely guilt trips you into constant loans. Cut it off now before it gets any worse. She needs to sink or swim.

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wolf8sheep t1_j2bef9c wrote

You sound like you would be responsible enough to have a cash back credit card that you pay off in full every month.

Try to build up your credit to where you qualify for something like the citi mastercard 2% cash back. Hoard those reward points until cybermonday and buy gift cards at a discount on something you would buy anyways which could be a hit or a miss although you can always use those reward points to cash out or offset your bill.

As for not stressing about spending money just focus of the value buys that cost more but last longer. Besides that start saving for retirement by opening a roth ira and seeing if your employer offers a 401k match.

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BouncyEgg t1_j2bef51 wrote

What analysis have you performed to conclude that going completely Roth 401k would be better for you over Traditional 401k?

What's your plan if you experience an emergency before the EF is able to be replenished?

What about maintain the EF as is and then contribute to the Roth IRA over time? (as opposed to the other way around)

You can contribute the full thing in one day or you can spread it out. "Too much" is if you contribute so much that you don't have enough to pay for your housing/food/bills/etc.

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gigglesworthy t1_j2bdexg wrote

My math was admittedly simple but illustrates a point. If I invest $1,000 a year for 10 years and a marginal 6% return, a fee of 0.04% is about $31, that's not enough to make a meaningful difference. Source . It's probably not worth fretting over.

> would you recommend someone roll money from an IRA (with good low ER funds) into TSP or a 401k? Why or why not?

No, because it probably wouldn't make a big difference.

But, it depends on the fees. In my experience, funds in IRAs tend to be higher than those in 401ks, and are usually much higher than 0.04%. That's why I argue that 401ks and the tsp are superior in many cases. Large employers have negotiating power to demand low fees. Individual investors don't get that same luxury. This is of course not universally true.

My only argument here is your statement that IRAs 'easily beat' a 401k. Funds in a 401K will often match or beat an IRA in terms of fees. I have both. I've had to go through this decision multiple times.

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SirMontego t1_j2bcawc wrote

The "placed in service" date is the date to determine the applicable tax credit percentage. IRC section 25D(g).

The "when the original installation of the item is completed" date is the date to determine the taxable year to claim the tax credit. IRC section 25D(a)(1) and (e)(8)(A), with a minor exception specified in (e)(8)(B).

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