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Mobile-Awareness-988 OP t1_iz5yyg4 wrote
Reply to comment by emjyx in Therapists / Psychiatrists by Mobile-Awareness-988
Oh I’ll check them out, thank you!
Mobile-Awareness-988 OP t1_iz5ywv1 wrote
Reply to comment by otisthepotus in Therapists / Psychiatrists by Mobile-Awareness-988
I’ll check them out, Ty!
Mobile-Awareness-988 OP t1_iz5yvid wrote
Reply to comment by piercecharlie in Therapists / Psychiatrists by Mobile-Awareness-988
This is helpful thank you!
Mobile-Awareness-988 OP t1_iz5ytgy wrote
Reply to comment by editorgrrl in Therapists / Psychiatrists by Mobile-Awareness-988
Will check it out, thanks!
Mobile-Awareness-988 OP t1_iz5yslj wrote
Reply to comment by m11cb in Therapists / Psychiatrists by Mobile-Awareness-988
I’ve also heard terrible things about them. Might keep them as a last resort though. Thank you both!
TheTowerBard t1_iz5xyfl wrote
Reply to What's going on with the trains? by bucketmorris
Mating season?
AdministrativeYak859 t1_iz5o4ov wrote
Reply to comment by poweredbait in What's going on with the trains? by bucketmorris
That was my thought? Is it true?
Sweaty_Conclusion_80 t1_iz5nhjq wrote
Reply to comment by catsmash in Why aren't more traffic tickets written? by cmndo
I’m certainly not “coming at” you, I’m simply pointing to my invitation to having you learn a bit more about a profession you don’t seem to have much personal experience with, or at least alter your perspective if not change it entirely. I’d call that welcoming rather than adversarial. For a profession accused of being close minded, it seems you’re the one with an entrenched position.
And yes, of course there will be cases of misconduct, we’re human beings and we’re going to make mistakes, it’s inevitable. I’d be concerned if data showed that there was no misconduct because that would mean the data was wrong. Taking a tiny subset and using it to impugn the entire profession is statistically incorrect however; compare police related misconduct to the aggregate of police interactions and you’ll see it’s a tiny fraction. By way of example, medical malpractice is the third leading cause of death in America: how many doctors/nurses do you know of who have been fired?
catsmash t1_iz5g0hw wrote
Reply to comment by Sweaty_Conclusion_80 in Why aren't more traffic tickets written? by cmndo
>Are you afraid of having your mind changed?
https://www.ctinsider.com/news/article/CT-state-police-accused-of-wrongdoing-17220971.php
https://www.ctinsider.com/news/article/Lawmakers-call-state-police-misconduct-a-17242943.php
https://www.ctpost.com/projects/2021/police-misconduct
lmao, nope! in fact what i'm afraid of is cops. it's a pretty normal way to feel about a professional class that has the power to completely alter or even end my life with limited, if, any, consequence - & who routinely, documentedly abuse that power. maybe you should be concerning yourself with the behavior & actions of the folks who inhabit your profession rather than coming at civilians grousing about rightfully earned negative public perception. your real problems are in-house.
emjyx t1_iz5b8pe wrote
Reply to Therapists / Psychiatrists by Mobile-Awareness-988
I like Well Life Therapy and know quite a few people who go there as well. Their office is in Middletown, but I think most of their providers offer virtual sessions. They responded very quickly to my initial request which was such a relief.
Sweaty_Conclusion_80 t1_iz4uyx8 wrote
Reply to comment by catsmash in Why aren't more traffic tickets written? by cmndo
Treating all cops in every state as if were the same seems pretty silly. I’m guessing if someone said that they didn’t like doctors or lawyers because some of them are terrible, you’d think that person needed some perspective.
What I find most interesting is that the police are constantly accused of having a closed culture. But I’m here suggesting that you come get to know us and your response is that I “go off” because you’ve had bad experiences in the past, as if those are the only possible experiences you could have. Are you afraid of having your mind changed?
catsmash t1_iz4t06m wrote
Reply to comment by Sweaty_Conclusion_80 in Why aren't more traffic tickets written? by cmndo
in fact my "experience is filtered" through my own personal experiences with cops, my own loved ones' direct experiences with cops, & state/national statistics, but go off.
catsmash t1_iz4sdhr wrote
Reply to comment by BryanCalens2ndFamily in Why aren't more traffic tickets written? by cmndo
uh, what
cldft18 t1_iz4o43d wrote
Reply to Group Tennis Classes in and around New Haven by JPW_88
Tennis Central in Woodbridge
poweredbait t1_iz4mzt6 wrote
Reply to comment by Extreme-Cupcake5929 in What's going on with the trains? by bucketmorris
Choo chooooooio
poweredbait t1_iz4mz2u wrote
Reply to What's going on with the trains? by bucketmorris
They were celebrating the new union contract.
Sweaty_Conclusion_80 t1_iz4lxev wrote
Reply to comment by mariegalante in Why aren't more traffic tickets written? by cmndo
I am a New Haven cop, so I’m pretty familiar. That sucks that’s been your experience, but in my science there’s different degrees and causes of “horrible.” Some of those are the fault of the officer, some are more bureaucratic, state law, etc.
marche_au_supplice t1_iz4f9nk wrote
Reply to What's going on with the trains? by bucketmorris
I also heard this and was wondering. I guess it could be extra freight moving or maintenance, but I’ve never heard so many horn blasts or heard them so continuously. I thought there must be some other reason.
fingers t1_iz4e7n5 wrote
Reply to What's going on with the trains? by bucketmorris
It's the holiday season and lots of freight is being moved
No_Refrigerator4584 t1_iz482mv wrote
Reply to What's going on with the trains? by bucketmorris
Probably maintenance crews on the tracks.
Extreme-Cupcake5929 t1_iz3yu97 wrote
Reply to What's going on with the trains? by bucketmorris
Being trains 🚊
otisthepotus t1_iz3kfb6 wrote
Reply to Therapists / Psychiatrists by Mobile-Awareness-988
Willow Treatment in Hamden has some of the best therapists around. A major help to me and multiple people close to me.
mariegalante t1_iz3gaw0 wrote
Reply to Why aren't more traffic tickets written? by cmndo
I don’t know the answer but I wonder if traffic stops are too dangerous or if they too often result in more work by revealing other crimes occurring. You stop someone for blowing a light and all of a sudden there’s weapons or drugs involved which change the tone of the whole stop/shift.
mariegalante t1_iz3fnl4 wrote
Reply to comment by Sweaty_Conclusion_80 in Why aren't more traffic tickets written? by cmndo
Have you ever called a New Haven cop for assistance? They are horrific to deal with.
OpelSmith t1_iz66mom wrote
Reply to comment by poweredbait in What's going on with the trains? by bucketmorris
Idk if the passenger services are covered by this tho