Recent comments in /f/newhampshire

YBMExile t1_jbcdzrt wrote

Fine. And you just dropped in on the Internet for the first time today, I’m sure. I’ll take it point by point. Parents already have the right to know what is going on with their child, in that they’re the parent, they set the tone in nearly all aspects of their child’s upbringing. No teacher or administrator or other school personnel is allowed to keep any part of the educational process private or secret or under wraps or anything. What affects children can be anything and everything, in school, at home, in society, online, etc.

Teachers and administrators and school personnel are not turning kids trans, they’re not grooming them for some other reality. Many if not most trans people know from the earliest age (well before school, even) that they’re not comfortable with their gender. School isn’t making them trans, but educators are doing what they can (with the full transparency enumerated above) to support their students by not demonizing their choices, not adding to the discomfort, and making school safe for everyone.

The overwhelming majority of educators have been dealing with trans students being more visible and less shunned/shamed for only a few years. Teachers and school staff are staggeringly normal representations of whatever district they work in, and many find it awkward, difficult, a little clumsy to navigate how best to support trans kids in the school setting. The point is they’re trying, they’re listening, and they’re succeeding, despite the troglodytes who are too afraid to even ask the most basic questions, and too aggrieved to give the benefit of the doubt to anyone different.

TLDR: you don’t get it, because it’s not your setting. It’s mind numbingly average, and not a Big Scary SEXY Topic at school.

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akmjolnir t1_jbc8n86 wrote

It's a rural area, overall, with Lebanon, Hanover, Harford (aka White River Junction), and Norwich making up a connected patchwork of big towns/small "city".

Housing will be expensive and take more planning than you would think to lock a place down.

There are a bunch of restaurants to check out in a 5-30 minute radius of DHMC.

Lebanon, Hanover, and Hartford have small walkable areas that are nice.

You'll be in luck if you're an outdoorsy person; there's lots of skiing relatively close, tons of hiking trails, plenty of places to drop in your kayak/canoe, and a couple rail trail sections to ride your bike in to avoid cars.

It's a pretty area, but your challenges will be finding a place to live, and meeting folks outside of work.

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Rolling_Beardo t1_jbc8cpo wrote

Housing is in short supply. You don’t have to live right next to DH but I would find out your expected time to come in if your on call would be. Meaning if you’re expected to be there within 25 minutes then make sure you’re close enough. Also, with that do not just go by miles actually put it into a map app and get directions. A buddy of mine lives 9.5 miles away and it takes me a half hour to get to his house

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Quirky_Butterfly_946 t1_jbc03tg wrote

Fully support this, as parents have every right to know what is going on with their own child. No teacher, no school, no other segment should be denying parents their rights to know who is influencing their children or any other issue that is effecting their child. You cannot EVER take away a parents right to their children.

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