Recent comments in /f/newhampshire
lizyouwerebeer t1_jbcf4aq wrote
Reply to comment by Quirky_Butterfly_946 in Transgender students at center of new bills in New Hampshire by flounder19
If a child feels more comfortable sharing their gender or sexuality issues with a teacher than they do with a parent...forcing the teacher to out the kid isn't going to address the larger issue there.
lizyouwerebeer t1_jbcet6j wrote
Don't we already have a teaching shortage? Why don't we address that first before passing bills that will make more teachers quit.
YBMExile t1_jbcea63 wrote
Reply to comment by huskydannnn in Transgender students at center of new bills in New Hampshire by flounder19
How does that play out in real life?
YBMExile t1_jbcdzrt wrote
Reply to comment by PNWMunky in Transgender students at center of new bills in New Hampshire by flounder19
Fine. And you just dropped in on the Internet for the first time today, I’m sure. I’ll take it point by point. Parents already have the right to know what is going on with their child, in that they’re the parent, they set the tone in nearly all aspects of their child’s upbringing. No teacher or administrator or other school personnel is allowed to keep any part of the educational process private or secret or under wraps or anything. What affects children can be anything and everything, in school, at home, in society, online, etc.
Teachers and administrators and school personnel are not turning kids trans, they’re not grooming them for some other reality. Many if not most trans people know from the earliest age (well before school, even) that they’re not comfortable with their gender. School isn’t making them trans, but educators are doing what they can (with the full transparency enumerated above) to support their students by not demonizing their choices, not adding to the discomfort, and making school safe for everyone.
The overwhelming majority of educators have been dealing with trans students being more visible and less shunned/shamed for only a few years. Teachers and school staff are staggeringly normal representations of whatever district they work in, and many find it awkward, difficult, a little clumsy to navigate how best to support trans kids in the school setting. The point is they’re trying, they’re listening, and they’re succeeding, despite the troglodytes who are too afraid to even ask the most basic questions, and too aggrieved to give the benefit of the doubt to anyone different.
TLDR: you don’t get it, because it’s not your setting. It’s mind numbingly average, and not a Big Scary SEXY Topic at school.
proteus94 t1_jbcd946 wrote
Reply to comment by mmirate in Manchester: Pearl Street parking lot apartment building heads to ZBA by BlackJesus420
Parking minimums drastically drive up the cost of multi unit housing developments for what it’s worth.
Neat-Ad11 t1_jbccjf6 wrote
Reply to comment by bluecaddy5000 in My barn has that thicc snowverhang going on! by bluecaddy5000
Gotta love the barn too. You could frame that.
-cochise t1_jbcchnl wrote
Reply to comment by greenglasstree in Transgender students at center of new bills in New Hampshire by flounder19
Most New Englanders have been fine with gay relationships for probably thirty or forty years. Hardly anybody (globally by massive margins, locally by who knows what margins) actually thinks “trans women are women” with no further caveats.
citizennsnipps t1_jbcbu5m wrote
Reply to Do you “air out” your house/apartment/etc about this time of year? Is there a certain temperature you air it out? Any tricks/ideas to airing it out? by FenwaysMom
I wait until April when the outside temp is close to where I keep my heat in the winter. Then again I have the windows open to air out for the bulk of spring.
bluecaddy5000 OP t1_jbcbeq9 wrote
Reply to comment by Neat-Ad11 in My barn has that thicc snowverhang going on! by bluecaddy5000
Thanks, it’s definitely an impressive one and still holding on tonight!
bluecaddy5000 OP t1_jbcbarb wrote
Reply to comment by eyeoxe in My barn has that thicc snowverhang going on! by bluecaddy5000
Tempting but high probability of me getting avalanched!
bluecaddy5000 OP t1_jbcb7y5 wrote
Reply to comment by TheRogerWilco in My barn has that thicc snowverhang going on! by bluecaddy5000
Thicc and beefy!
bluecaddy5000 OP t1_jbcb6q6 wrote
Reply to comment by livelaughween in My barn has that thicc snowverhang going on! by bluecaddy5000
There’s been a couple “snowverhang” posts on this sub so I can’t take credit for the term. It definitely inspired me to post this though!
huskydannnn t1_jbcauc3 wrote
i dont support transgenderism
lantrick t1_jbcajtj wrote
First they came 4 for the transgendered, and I did nothing.
Neat-Ad11 t1_jbc9wdf wrote
I’ve seen a few of those around here but I think this one is the best. 👍🏻
akmjolnir t1_jbc8n86 wrote
Reply to comment by Tforthee in Living around Dartmouth Medical Center. Live right next to the MC worth it? by Tforthee
It's a rural area, overall, with Lebanon, Hanover, Harford (aka White River Junction), and Norwich making up a connected patchwork of big towns/small "city".
Housing will be expensive and take more planning than you would think to lock a place down.
There are a bunch of restaurants to check out in a 5-30 minute radius of DHMC.
Lebanon, Hanover, and Hartford have small walkable areas that are nice.
You'll be in luck if you're an outdoorsy person; there's lots of skiing relatively close, tons of hiking trails, plenty of places to drop in your kayak/canoe, and a couple rail trail sections to ride your bike in to avoid cars.
It's a pretty area, but your challenges will be finding a place to live, and meeting folks outside of work.
Rolling_Beardo t1_jbc8cpo wrote
Housing is in short supply. You don’t have to live right next to DH but I would find out your expected time to come in if your on call would be. Meaning if you’re expected to be there within 25 minutes then make sure you’re close enough. Also, with that do not just go by miles actually put it into a map app and get directions. A buddy of mine lives 9.5 miles away and it takes me a half hour to get to his house
PNWMunky t1_jbc6z3l wrote
Reply to comment by YBMExile in Transgender students at center of new bills in New Hampshire by flounder19
Tell me you spend too much time online without… using this tired and lame phrase.
Litteach t1_jbc3mjv wrote
Reply to comment by Quirky_Butterfly_946 in Transgender students at center of new bills in New Hampshire by flounder19
Affecting not effecting Parent with an apostrophe for "parents rights"
No one is trying to take away rights from parents but maybe other people are better at teaching your kid certain things.
Boats_are_fun t1_jbc3bkx wrote
Reply to comment by Burger-King-Covid in Best place to get a massage in NH and go! by MatthewRTRCT
Orchids of Asia, in Jupiter Florida may be to far to travel. YMMV
Edit: Also it was Patriots owner Bob Kraft
eyeoxe t1_jbc2j4y wrote
I'd be very tempted to poke at it with a shovel. Watch it all start falling.
YBMExile t1_jbc211j wrote
Reply to comment by Quirky_Butterfly_946 in Transgender students at center of new bills in New Hampshire by flounder19
Tell me you’ve never worked in a school without telling me you’ve never worked in a school.
YBMExile t1_jbc1xx6 wrote
Reply to comment by flounder19 in Transgender students at center of new bills in New Hampshire by flounder19
I think they think they’ve never met anyone trans, but many have and don’t even know.
Quirky_Butterfly_946 t1_jbc03tg wrote
Fully support this, as parents have every right to know what is going on with their own child. No teacher, no school, no other segment should be denying parents their rights to know who is influencing their children or any other issue that is effecting their child. You cannot EVER take away a parents right to their children.
_6zero3_ t1_jbcgzbc wrote
Reply to Transgender students at center of new bills in New Hampshire by flounder19
>The House killed a similar bill last year after Republican Gov. Chris Sununu promised to veto it, but conservative lawmakers in both chambers are pushing new versions this session. Sununu hasn’t taken a position on the new bills.
Shocker. /s