Recent comments in /f/massachusetts

Unique-Public-8594 t1_jdhalzr wrote

Honestly, I think the reserved and unfriendly stereotype is exaggerated. I think you will have plenty of friends and great neighbors. It just takes one organizer to have weekly pizza and wine block parties. It only takes one organizer to go out after work. There are plenty of ways to find a gym buddy.

Some people distrust nonlocals but I’d say that’s only 5-10%.

Some people have filled their friend roster but I’d say that’s only 5-10%.

Truth is, lots of people are lonely and will welcome your friendship.

Meeting people through your children is extra easy.

If someone snubs you, you probably don’t want them as a friend any way.

2

HatAppropriate1351 t1_jdhahb5 wrote

I have picked up some pretty good history and science books at my library while studying. Start them on the for dummies series as a guide then expand outwards from here. Research is a pretty powerful tool these days. Also get them on a path. Be an engineer. Be cardiologist. be a teacher. Hospitals provide better money then family practice. Being a police officer can be pretty good money. What do your kids like doing?

1

InspectorFun1699 OP t1_jdh90yy wrote

gosh to have a good library! Oh my mind is racing with happy thoughts of that! Our local library is mostly fiction and nonfiction military books, Nicolas Sparks and right wing stuff like Tucker Carlson. Probably great for most around here! Just not me, but I’m aware that I’m the odd man out

The schools…yes, that’s very good to be aware of. I’ve seen shootings, stabbings, major physical fights. It’s terrifying and it only gets more and more normalized.

1

InspectorFun1699 OP t1_jdh7nmu wrote

Good to know! The COL is making my palms sweat but gotta remind myself that living in a low COL area now has gotten us a great house, disposable income, less financial stress BUT ALSO…regressive policies, few environmental regulations, surrounded by trumpers and bible thumpers (if you’re religious, fine, but it’s very evangelical and hardcore here) prayer in public schools, so much open bigotry, lots of open animal abuse, surrounded by “if you don’t like it, leave!” Attitude, no social safety nets at all. That stuff really wears me out.

1

peteypaaaablo t1_jdgz3ab wrote

Welp, starting next month (wnenever the first striped bass begin showing up this far north) this ruddy cheeked old succubus will have to get used to seeing me happily navigating the pathway through her precious rock field with a surf rod in hand. I figure I’ll usually be arriving right as shes sitting down to enjoy that day’s early morning glass of breakfast scotch and the first of 5000 chain smoked Marlboro lights. I feel like this woman probably smells like a distinctive bouquet of mothballs and dollar store perfume, with a strong top note scent reminiscent of the very bottom layer of an overflowing ashtray.

1