Recent comments in /f/massachusetts
homefone t1_jacqik8 wrote
Reply to comment by SouthShoreSerenade in A renewed push to legalize ‘medical aid in dying’ by d5dq
>Any dying person that wishes to avoid being that terrible burden on the ones that they love have the God given right to make the choice not to be that burden, and government and a falsely polite society have no right interfering with that.
No. Feeling like a burden is not a justification for suicide. It's not normally, and that doesn't change at the end of life. And how will we be certain that every medically assisted suicide will be done to someone that can actually consent to it? Dying people are not known for their mental faculties.
>I've seen enough dying people in my life to know that they ARE a burden
And so, you'd prefer they feel pressured to kill themselves because of it?
UniqueCartel t1_jacq8n2 wrote
Reply to comment by BU0989 in Strip Club in Western Mass Wants To Convert Into 'Topless Dispensary,' Purportedly 1st In State by HoldenGambles
Because boobies
UniqueCartel t1_jacpvyy wrote
Reply to Strip Club in Western Mass Wants To Convert Into 'Topless Dispensary,' Purportedly 1st In State by HoldenGambles
Amazing. Would love to be in those uncomfortable board meetings the town will have. Btw there’s no way that gets passed. There’s no way the CCC gives them a license. And there’s no way the town approves it as a dispensary location. Great idea though. Taking big swings. Love it
copenhagen120 t1_jacpric wrote
Reply to comment by homefone in A renewed push to legalize ‘medical aid in dying’ by d5dq
Why not give them the agency to make that decision for themselves? Trust me, not giving them the choice doesn't make it any better.
My father-in-law is terminally ill, and for him the only thing worse than the physical pain is the emotional distress of knowing that his last days will be be a painful drain of emotional and financial resources on himself and the family he's leaving behind.
I really can't emphasize the agency part enough. Getting a terminal diagnosis is so emotionally difficult, partly because you're officially at the end of the line. There's nothing you or anyone else can do to keep the fight going. You've been stripped of agency in your fight to live, and you don't even have the agency to decide to end it if that's what you want. It contributes to the powerlessness of a terminal diagnosis in such an unnecessary way and is heartbreaking to witness.
Deacon_Blues88 t1_jacpekz wrote
Reply to comment by SketchAinsworth in SUV stolen in Lawrence with toddler in back seat by Animallover4321
That’s not what the article says happened tho…
Elementium t1_jacp8h3 wrote
Reply to comment by 3720-To-One in A renewed push to legalize ‘medical aid in dying’ by d5dq
For sure. As a whole I'd like to see a recommitment to the whole separation of church and state.
copenhagen120 t1_jacp8ek wrote
This is one of those issues that a lot of people feel uncomfortable facing. Lots of slippery slope arguments, religious/moral arguments, etc. Opinions change when you have a dying, suffering loved one who wants nothing more than to end the pain, and isn't able to. I promise, your take on the subject will quickly shift to "it's absolutely unacceptable that someone in terminal pain doesn't have the agency to end their struggle on their own terms".
My father-in-law is terminally ill, and for him the only thing worse than the physical pain is the emotional distress of knowing that his last days will be be a painful drain of emotional and financial resources on himself and the family he's leaving behind.
And I can't emphasize the agency part enough. Getting a terminal diagnosis is so emotionally difficult, partly because you're officially at the end of the line. There's nothing you or anyone else can do to keep the fight going. You've been stripped of agency in your fight to live, and you don't even have the agency to decide to end it if that's what you want. It just contributed to the powerlessness of a terminal diagnosis in such an unnecessary way and is heartbreaking to witness.
3720-To-One t1_jacoy3r wrote
Reply to comment by homefone in A renewed push to legalize ‘medical aid in dying’ by d5dq
Okay? And when the writing is already on the wall, why force EVERYONE involved to have to needlessly suffer more than they already have to?
SouthShoreSerenade t1_jacomy4 wrote
Reply to comment by homefone in A renewed push to legalize ‘medical aid in dying’ by d5dq
>Dying people may view themselves as a burden
I'm going to say something awful.
I've seen enough dying people in my life to know that they ARE a burden, almost universally, when that death is drawn out. A horrible burden, one that saps the strength, the will, the hope, and the light out of the people that care for them.
Any dying person that wishes to avoid being that terrible burden on the ones that they love have the God given right to make the choice not to be that burden, and government and a falsely polite society have no right interfering with that.
Dementia has struck every elderly blood related person on my dad's side of the family. Already I can see it coming for him. I know it will come for me too. I will not let my loved ones have to babysit me while I scream in fear, soil myself, and try to call police on the threatening "intruders" who have loved me their entire lives. It's not happening.
3720-To-One t1_jacoghw wrote
Reply to comment by Elementium in A renewed push to legalize ‘medical aid in dying’ by d5dq
I’m just sick of religious people feeling it’s their prerogative to shove their “values” down everyone else’s throat.
charons-voyage t1_jaco2a5 wrote
Reply to comment by Deacon_Blues88 in SUV stolen in Lawrence with toddler in back seat by Animallover4321
Cus Redditors never want to assign blame to any individual for their actions, unless the story is about a cop or Republic obviously.
Lastexit25 t1_jacnuut wrote
Reply to Strip Club in Western Mass Wants To Convert Into 'Topless Dispensary,' Purportedly 1st In State by HoldenGambles
I got thrown out of there years and years ago during the day with my buddies because the only girl dancing was 9 months pregnant and we couldn't stop laughing.
BrokedownAlice69 t1_jacnu5a wrote
Reply to comment by BrokedownAlice69 in Strip Club in Western Mass Wants To Convert Into 'Topless Dispensary,' Purportedly 1st In State by HoldenGambles
And I don’t care about how weird it is, people can do whatever they want. I hate to say it but the clientele that attend topless businesses are 90% scumbags
BrokedownAlice69 t1_jacnozo wrote
Reply to comment by wittgensteins-boat in Strip Club in Western Mass Wants To Convert Into 'Topless Dispensary,' Purportedly 1st In State by HoldenGambles
Read again… talking about the future. The first pot clubs are about to open in the state. Places will be able to do it this year… not my scene at all. The last thing I want to do when getting high is to look at topless women who are getting stared at like objects. I’ve never had any desire to go to any topless place. Weird
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Reply to comment by hanner__ in A renewed push to legalize ‘medical aid in dying’ by d5dq
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hanner__ t1_jacmzyg wrote
Reply to comment by Elecrockcity in A renewed push to legalize ‘medical aid in dying’ by d5dq
Everyone knows what it is. Don’t see what’s so wrong with being able to choose to end your life if you’re going to die anyway.
onewithoutasoul t1_jacmsib wrote
Reply to comment by BlaiddDrwg82 in Strip Club in Western Mass Wants To Convert Into 'Topless Dispensary,' Purportedly 1st In State by HoldenGambles
Whoa whoa whoa
Was Haven the club above a Sheriff's station?
Illustrious-Nose3100 OP t1_jacmqvw wrote
Reply to comment by Helpful-Sweet2242 in Has anyone every used Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp?? by Illustrious-Nose3100
Yeah, I looked a few websites that posted their rates and USAA seemed slightly higher
Like_A_Bosstonian t1_jacmnr5 wrote
Reply to comment by sammydee44 in Strip Club in Western Mass Wants To Convert Into 'Topless Dispensary,' Purportedly 1st In State by HoldenGambles
Jugs n Nugs
Deacon_Blues88 t1_jacmdyj wrote
Reply to comment by charons-voyage in SUV stolen in Lawrence with toddler in back seat by Animallover4321
Why is this being downvoted? You don’t leave a fucking toddler alone in a car, even for a second…
Edit: spelling
Ineluki_742 t1_jacltqd wrote
Reply to comment by 1ozbaggie in Strip Club in Western Mass Wants To Convert Into 'Topless Dispensary,' Purportedly 1st In State by HoldenGambles
Can always just spot the local, we called it that all my life (40ish now)
Elementium t1_jaclsuj wrote
Reply to comment by 3720-To-One in A renewed push to legalize ‘medical aid in dying’ by d5dq
The problem is a lot of people say the same thing but far too often by the time they're past the point of "if I get like that I'll kill myself" their mind or body isnt there anymore.
Jer_Cough t1_jaclrww wrote
Reply to comment by AbsentThatDay2 in Strip Club in Western Mass Wants To Convert Into 'Topless Dispensary,' Purportedly 1st In State by HoldenGambles
During the Big Dig, I remember ads for Foxy Lady breakfasts targeting construction workers billed as "legs and eggs".
Quirky_Butterfly_946 t1_jaclqw9 wrote
Reply to what if New England was under British empire after American Revolution by Consistent-Bat9690
why is NY listed here?
UniqueCartel t1_jacqo4g wrote
Reply to comment by Like_A_Bosstonian in Strip Club in Western Mass Wants To Convert Into 'Topless Dispensary,' Purportedly 1st In State by HoldenGambles
Put in a gas station and we all know what the name would be. .. Gas grass and chlamydia.