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hxc-ufoz t1_j7ncvvc wrote

They're at the age where you can't legally retaliate, which sucks but it means you have to be careful. I'm a tall, somewhat imposing man, and even still dude. When I see a raucous crowd of teenage boys I don't know, honestly I will sometimes cross the street.

I remember being that age. They're shit heads and it's easy for a group of friends to egg each other on into doing bad things.

It sounds like you did the right thing OP. All you could have done to retaliate was bark at them, say that you'll call the cops -- maybe they'd disperse, but if anything, you're just increasing the risk to yourself and your girl of being harmed.

In a position like that you do whatever you can to help her feel safe. It can't hurt to use your voice at least, but beyond that the move is definitely to exit the situation as quickly as possible.

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Blecher_onthe_Hudson t1_j7mx5ic wrote

Lord, I go through this with tenants all the time. If you don't have a backup of some kind like a neighbor or a hidden key, then don't set your latch to lock behind you! If you have to turn and lock with your key you'll know whether you have your keys with you or not!

Besides if you're doing it in a way you can get locked out, then you're not throwing your deadbolt and your place is much less secure.

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Blecher_onthe_Hudson t1_j7mwgh5 wrote

Reply to comment by SonOfMcGee in New hotdog in town by stansberry12

I like a grilled dog too, but the determining quality factor in either preparation is how long it's been sitting there. A place that doesn't move their grilled dogs puts shriveled little peckers on your bun.

At home I lightly microwave the dog (A&H kosher beef) and then put it on a piece of foil in the toaster oven on "toast". Plump and snappy!

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