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cayenne0 t1_ja3wbxt wrote

Use your health insurance website - filter by distance from your location. Google the doctor's name to find reviews. Call the office of your top few and ask if they have availability. If you just need a prescription refilled you can often get sooner appointments with the Physician Assistant from the same office, with an actual physical appointment scheduled further out.

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socialthrowaway87 t1_ja3uhae wrote

I would say you are projecting your fears onto her, at least as of the time I posted my comment and based on the reply to me. Even if it did, it doesn’t change my response because she is asking about going to bars alone. It is what it is. To go to bars alone, someone has to be willing to actually go to them alone. Let them write their story. We don’t need to do it for them. We also don’t need to assume they aren’t capable or are afraid of those things as a main factor. Boston is very safe and literally every activity in life has some statistical probability of something happening. The likelihood of those things happening are still very low on any given day. It’s up to them to set parameters for how they do activities and what their limits and concerns are.

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Repulsive-Bend8283 t1_ja3ugis wrote

Also paddling the Mystic River and lakes or hiking, biking, or trail running in the Fells. There's plenty of nature adjacent spaces, if not entirely pristine and out of earshot from a highway, and putting the slightest effort into getting away from the parts accessible by vehicles, you'll find some real solitude.

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Stirling-Newberry t1_ja3u9o6 wrote

Welcome! We live in Arlington with our five-year-old daughter. My single piece of advice is to plan adventures for your daughter because she only gets to explore the city once.

  1. Get a library card both in Boston and Arlington. Best if she can sign her own name.
  2. A trip to Concord Battleground.
  3. The Museum of Fine Arts.
  4. The Science Museum.
  5. The Aquarium.
  6. Go north to Plum Island. Purchase a year's membership if she likes it.
  7. The Boston Common and Public Garden.
  8. Places to eat that are kid-friendly such Paramount on Charles St in Boston.
  9. Mystic Lakes.
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batdesk t1_ja3tyoj wrote

I’m an outdoorsy midwestern person who has grown to love it here. I’m married to a city person. I really enjoy that if I want lots of nature, NH, Maine, Vermont, and Western MA are driveable. I have seen some really amazing geological sites and beautiful forests. I really like Stow, VT and Acadia National Park. Our local forests are small but I love them too. When you go out to Easthampton, there are waterfall hikes and the Quabbin reservoir is fun for kayaking. In Arlington, you are close to the Middlesex Fells, one of my favorite parks around here. It’s so easy to get to. Mount Misery is another hidden gem close to your new home.

Make sure to go get outdoors on a regular basis. Don’t wait for city cabin fever to set in. One summer, we put a different hike on our calendar for every Saturday and either made ourselves go out or consciously choose something else. Our default plan was “go outside.” For vacation, we occasionally rent a cabin in the woods.

That said, make sure you go on city adventures too, so you get a sense of the upsides. For a while I was a little sad because I only felt the city struggle vs the benefits. You will be close to so many fun things, and you & your kids will have amazing opportunities.

Last thing, I love that there are people here from all over the US and the world! It’s amazing! Don’t get discouraged if you find it difficult to form friendships with lifelong New Englanders (especially the old money crowd, in my experience). Have trust that you will find your circle of friends. Most of my friends are fellow transplants, plus a couple New Englanders, and I love them all. I’ve learned so much from them that I would have never learned if I had not moved to the city, and I can count on them.

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MumziDarlin t1_ja3t5oq wrote

Do you already have a place to live? Our son and his fiancé lived near Spy Pond, and it was a lovely place to live near. They moved to find a larger place (their place was literally about a 2575 sf apartment.). If you haven’t looked for an apartment/home yet, be prepared for sticker shock. There are some decent photos of Spy Pond here: https://leokrut.com/e-vault/album/spy_pond/park.html Schools are generally great. Eating out in Greater Boston is pricey, but there are lots of options. Highly recommend The Science Museum (reduced tickets at the library, or become members) - I really loved going there when our kids were little - there is a lot of Hands on, and it was easy to push a stroller while our older child explored. They have a room especially for young children. The best food stores : Market Basket in Somerville or Wegmans in Medford. I like the choices and prices at Costco, and there are a few around, but perhaps too far out for you?

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Dry_Entrepreneur_629 t1_ja3r451 wrote

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jjgould165 t1_ja3qyc3 wrote

Most libraries have museum passes for all of these museums that are mentioned. You can get discounted or free access as long as you book it ahead of time.

You will also be near a few historical national parks and only a 4-6 hour (depending on traffic) ride to Acadia, our only National Park park. The National Seashore runs along the Cape and the seal tours are really fun, just keep an eye out for great whites. One went under a tour boat the week before we went out.

Ticks are an issue, so don't forget to prepare for that!

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