Recent comments in /f/books

scottfishel t1_jd9j6zg wrote

I love to trade books or give them away. I keep the favorites, but if I’m likely not going to read something again, at least in the near future, I’ve never seen the point of just filling bookshelves.

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strongsolarwind t1_jd9j5gc wrote

Eew, you give The Alchemist to people? Rude. /s

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(But lots of people here in this sub and in the world at large loathe that book. I personally have only hated two books in my life, The Historian and The Alchemist)

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wandamaximovvs t1_jd9iwju wrote

I've given both my best friend and her partner a copy of my favourite book (Six of Crows) and told them to read it. As for my other friends who love to read, they have wishlists on Amazon and I buy something off that for their birthdays, Christmas, etc. I don't just gift someone a book that may not be up their alley (unless they specifically ask me to do so).

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BwanaAzungu OP t1_jd9i4zk wrote

>For kids? Absolutely.

Good point

I told a friend of mine I plan to indoctrinate her son "Sam" into liking LOTR.

I got him a red dragon plushie when he was born.

He's getting The Hobbit for his fifth birthday.

Kronk voice: Yeah, it's all coming together

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Madageddon t1_jd9i1su wrote

The Voyage of the Basset is a picture-heavy book with wonderful sketches in the margins and gorgeous illustrations everywhere. It means a lot to me as a place to start in fantasy, being about fantasy is a bonus, and as a book that was ready to me (especially as I struggled to ready and got to it late, then became voracious).

When I found out my niece was getting into reading, I almost broke 5+ years of no contact with a family member to see if I could get my copy for her. I didn't do that, but I did get her the book. I haven't heard much about it, but the point was to satisfy that little girl I used to be in getting that out there.

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BwanaAzungu OP t1_jd9hfnv wrote

I like to give something with some personal touch, so I usually don't go for gift cards. In particular the more generic ones; at that point, just give the money (but I'm cynical like that).

As for books, tho:

I once went to a birthday party of an enthousiastic reader. He's comfortable with his own taste in books too, and doesn't like to veer outside of it. He likes books, it's a well-known fact about him; most people know what his favourite authors are.

So inevitably, when one of his favourite authors published a new book, he got five copies as a birthday present from five different people. (Edit: of which he had to keep one copy, and return four. So he had to choose which copy to keep and potentially offend someone, and ask the others politely for a receipt of a gift they thought was thoughtful)

I just gave him a book voucher. A book everyone knows you want, you'll get from everyone. I rather give something so you can get the book I don't know you want.

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unlovelyladybartleby t1_jd9gz35 wrote

I only give them if they seem like a good fit for the person. For example a friend of mine was struggling with an elderly relative with end stage COPD and her adult kids moving back to the nest while renovating a shed in the back yard to live in so I bought her Unsheltered by Barbara Kingsolver. Or my step dad just fell off a ladder he had no business being on so I bought him Can't Wait to Get to Heaven by Fannie Flagg.

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