Recent comments in /f/books

LexiiConn t1_jd9ft86 wrote

Unless someone made it very clear that they wanted a specific book, I wouldn’t give books as gifts. Not even to a bona-fide book lover. I think it would put too much pressure on the recipient to read, enjoy and report back to me. Suppose I picked a book they didn’t like. Would they feel obligated to finish it?

I’m not much of a gift giver, though. Unless I am thoroughly comfortable that I know the recipient’s tastes, I tend to give gift cards. And often, I give the ones that are not tied to any one store or business.

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BinstonBirchill t1_jd9fsf7 wrote

I give people books but it’s rarely based on my experience of reading the book, sometimes i’ll give a book I didn’t particularly even like because I know their taste and mine differ, sometimes one I haven’t read.

I give books based on what I know of them and their reading habits. Sometimes I nudge them in a direction they’ve never tried before but I know it offers something they would enjoy, say certain historical fiction for a solely romance reader.

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gigarob t1_jd9fpnv wrote

I used to keep a *lot* of books, and of course, people always asked to borrow.

I never loaned out books. I gave them, and asked to be given them back when done. (If I didn't want to give the book away, I just said "No" or "you can come by here and read it anytime you want")

After several moves in quick succession and an impending move to NYC I gave my entire library away -- Limit of one book per person per visit. It took a few months and a few parties but in the end almost all were gone.

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[deleted] t1_jd9ehq6 wrote

I pass books on to my artistic minded friends if I believe they’ll get something out of them, whether they’ve read the author or not, usually with a note or an explanation.

If I purchase a book as a gift it’s usually a coffee table book unless I’ve been specifically asked for a book.

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Plarino t1_jd9ece2 wrote

I give books to people I know enjoy reading. I usually ask for specifics otherwise try to find a random book related to one of their deep dive interests. It's so much fun when people are pleased with books they haven't heard of.

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